So his name is Tankie, he's a middle-aged rescue cat who's had a hard time and he's been with us a week. We have another four cats - two elderly brothers who really don't care who he is as long as he doesn't eat their food, and two other rescues who have already introduced themselves. There is a general mutual.shrug amongst all of them....
Now the thing is, he really, badly wants to go explori ng outside. He has a litter tray and uses it beautifully, but he asks every morning to.go out when he wants a wee - it's obvious he'd feel "happier" using the veg patch like everybody else 
We'd like to take him on a harness into the garden just to get him used to "his" new patch, but putting it on him really distresses him.so we stopped.
I feel.so bad for him that he really, really wants to go ourside but he's not allowed. How do we know when he's ready to try?