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Missing my girl

15 replies

Flamingoose · 25/08/2018 07:45

She was such a special little cat. I know it's trite but I do feel genuinely lucky to have had her for the short time that we did. But gosh I'd give an awful lot to have her back. She left a very big space in the world, for such a tiny little thing.

It's been a few months now. At first I thought I was properly going mad. I felt crushed and breathless. And of course, time helps and now I go about my day as normal. And when I do think of her it's with fondness and love. But just once in a while I get sideswiped by her loss.

She was a serious little cat. Never goofy or silly. She was wary of strangers and easily spooked. The only person she ever truly relaxed with was me. I was her human and she trusted me completely. She was always near me, watching carefully. My little shadow. I miss her.

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Toddlerteaplease · 25/08/2018 09:10

I totally understand. Miss Fatty terribly. Her sister is starting to do the things that Fatty used to do. Which is bittersweet especially as they are nearly identical. I've got a new cat, who's helping to fill the gap a little. She's the complete opposite of Fatty which is good. I had the most beautiful card yesterday from the lady who looked after them in the cattery. She fell in love with them. She said she cried her eyes out when she heard she'd died. And I was so touched as it meant she mattered.

Toddlerteaplease · 25/08/2018 09:11

Totally get the feeling lucky. I felt so lucky with her.

Want2beme · 25/08/2018 10:14

So sorry for your loss. Its so hard to deal with. Time helps, but the memories do come along and set you back a little bit. It'll get easier and she'll always be with youFlowers

Toddlerteaplease · 25/08/2018 10:18

Op. Please post a photo if you feel able too.

Flamingoose · 25/08/2018 10:55

Thanks guys. Sorry for your loss too Toddler.

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Flamingoose · 25/08/2018 10:56

Here's my girl. The most beautiful cat in the world to me.

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Rudgie47 · 25/08/2018 11:15

Sorry she pass over, do consider getting another when you feel the time is right.

Toddlerteaplease · 25/08/2018 11:38

I was about to say what a magnificent tail. Then realised it didn't belong to her!! She was gorgeous!

Flamingoose · 25/08/2018 11:39

Ha. That's her brother's tail. He is still with us.

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Toddlerteaplease · 25/08/2018 11:40

Agree with Rudgie. The biggest healing has come from my new addition. I never expected to get a cat so soon, but the right one came along and she's the complete opposite of Fatty. And Snorg seemed very lonely.

DuchessAnnogovia · 25/08/2018 11:59

I know exactly how you feel. I had to have my beloved Gizmo put to sleep last Thursday. He was 16 and had kidney failure and cancer. He was an absolutely brilliant cat, he used to follow me round like a little dog, bring me presents of moss and steal my washing up sponges. He had me as his slave from the very moment he was born (I was his mummys midwife). He was such a character and a little charmer. I miss him terribly.

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Flamingoose · 25/08/2018 12:04

Nice boots Gizmo. I'm so sorry for your loss Annogovia. He looks like a character, and a very handsome one too.

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Toddlerteaplease · 25/08/2018 12:04

So cute! Here is Fatty. ( who was definitely not fat)

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BrevilleTron · 25/08/2018 13:55

I totally understand how you feel. She sounded like a wonderful cat. Enjoy your memories x

Flamingoose · 25/08/2018 21:04

Oh Fatty is beautiful too. I want to scritch his fluffy head.

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