Apologies if this is long but I'm really hoping someone can help me so giving any relevant info I can think of.
We got our beautiful rescue girl in 2012. Her name is Grace. She is lovely. Since we got her I have had 2 DC and currently pregnant with our third. Grace seemed to adapt OK to them both.
We recently had a lot of building work on our house and had to move out for a little while. We of course took Grace with us. While we were living elsewhere the problems began - she stopped using her tray or the garden and started to do all her poos and wees inside the house on the floor. Not in any one spot but anywhere in the house. We moved home 6 weeks ago and it has continued. I honestly don't know what to do. I am at breaking point as we have a lot going on at the moment. My youngest is starting to crawl and put everything in her mouth and the thought she might be putting cat mess into her mouth is upsetting me. The whole time we were away I hoped she would be OK when we moved home but that is obviously not what's happened.
I've tried feliway. I've tried putting a number of litter trays around the house and always in the same place. I keep her trays absolutely spotless and she has access to the garden which is very safe and secluded and I've never seen another cat there. Has anyone got any advice how I can get her out of this habit? We adore her but she is becoming really hard work for me. I'm on my hands and knees cleaning up after her everyday. As I say it's not in one particular place but all around the house.
I'm really hoping someone can give me some suggestions as to what to do.