I have had regular visits from a Tom cat now for nearly 2 years. I have two spayed girls and they have a cat flap so I think he has been coming and going for some time.
Anyway, recently he seems to have been coming almost every night. He isn't neutered and has been spraying in the conservatory. My two seem to know him and it doesn't bother them when he was yowling at the back door this afternoon. He strolled into my house and he seems very at home. So I rang the vets and took him to see if he was chipped - he isn't and none of my neighbours know him. We are quite isolated in a rural area so plenty of food for him.
Question is, what do I do with him? He's beautiful and very friendly.