I'm feeling really guilty. My 2year old, pretty much feral cat who has been scrupulously clean from when she was rescued from stables at 3/4 weeks has just wee'd on the dogs bed, in front of me.
The snow and blizzard and horrendous howling winds is really bad and I am actually snowed in (Pennines) but she has been going in and out. I did wonder at one point if she would be scared but then dismissed it.
Anyway, just sat reading and she made a funny weird yowl and I thought she was stuck somewhere but she appeared and went over to the dogs beds (spoilt dog has one in every room) where she sometimes sleeps and started kneeding it.
I just looked over and thought she was going to settle down, then glanced over and she was obviously in "pee stance".
Here's where I'm a bit upset with myself, because I jumped up and shouted a loud "Noooo". She shot off behind the settee and I mumbling something like, "What the hell" grabbed the bed and threw it on kitchen floor to wash (big padded thing so 2 washes).
So then I dug out an old covered litter tray, luckily still had half a bag of litter and put it where she would see it as I realised now she was scared to go out.
Next news, she scoots across the house and out the cat flap, the weather is horrendous, I've frightened her and she's not been back for 2 hours.
I'm so upset with myself for scaring her!!!!
Do you think she'll find shelter till she feels able to come back in. She's never, ever been shouted at before.