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GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 14/12/2017 05:32

Hello. We’re arranging to meet a rescue cat at his foster home next week. He’s described as “gentle young man” (15 months) who’s used to children. We are a family of 4 - two DC age 3.5 and nearly 6, who’ve been brought up around animals (their grandma, who they see a few times a week and often stay with, has dogs) and taught to be gentle and respectful of them.

Assuming he likes us, the rescue will want us take him within 2-3 days, so he’d be coming home with us next week. I had cats throughout my childhood but haven’t owned one since my early 20s (which was nearly 20 years ago!) DH had a dog as a teen and it will be the children’s first pet. The house will be relatively quiet over Christmas - I mean, it’s Christmas with kids in the house, so hardly serene, but our only visitor will be my Mum, so it won’t be full of guests coming and going.

What do I need to think about? As I say it’s been years since I had a cat, and the ones I did I had from kittenhood. The rescue say the cat is a “bit stressed” by losing his previous home so I’m assuming there’ll be issues to consider that are different to “manic tiny kitten” issues. I have spots picked out for food and litter tray and bed and scratch post. I would register him with the same vet my mum has. We’re financially reasonably comfortable so money isn’t an issue. What else do I need to get or think about?

Btw we’re not getting a cat “for Christmas”. We’ve wanted one for a while, it just so happens one is available we think would suit us at Christmas time. We’re not thinking of him as a present and wouldn’t treat him as such. He’d be a family member.

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 01/01/2018 12:37

OP - Maybe there is a cat #3 out there for you? Cat #2 sounds gorgeous, but possibly better suited to a smaller household.

BluebellTheDonkey · 01/01/2018 12:55

Whereabouts are you OP? If you're anywhere near South East Hampshire I can recommend a fab rescueSmile

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 01/01/2018 13:23

Yes, @YetAnotherSpartacus , it has occurred to me I should just hold out and wait for a different cat.

Would a kitten be better, if I wait for kitten season? I actually didn't want a very young cat, but wondered if a cat that grew up with the kids would be more comfortable with them?

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GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 01/01/2018 13:24

Herts rather than Hamps, Bluebell, but thank you!

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Thegiantofillinois · 01/01/2018 13:33

We already had cat from before dc, but adopted 2 kittens when dc were 4 and 6. It worked really well. The hardest part was integrating the new cats with the grumpy older one who had lost his companion to old age.

BluebellTheDonkey · 01/01/2018 13:34

Ah OK, good luck, I am sure the right cat is out there somewhere just waiting for you!

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 07/01/2018 10:34

Well I'm finally getting somewhere with the first rescue, and we have an appointment to go and meet Casper on Saturday. He's another fluffy ginger boy, used to children, and very gentle. Which is just as well as he's also HUGE - 5.5 kilos!

Fingers crossed!

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 07/01/2018 12:13

Casper sounds snugillicious. 5.5 isn't that huge for a ginger boy. The one who used to snaffle fish from my OPs fish and chips was 6.2 and not that heavy.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 07/01/2018 12:13

Good luck!

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 07/01/2018 13:03

I have a good feeling about this one.

Will be back with photos if he ends up coming home with us!

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 07/01/2018 13:14

I hope it all works out really I want him. Good luck!

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