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My lovely cat was killed last night (title amended by MNHQ)

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WarmSound · 07/06/2016 09:32

Don't know why I'm posting really, I'm just so gutted and upset, just wanted to talk to people who understand.

DD got a text from a friend to say a cat like ours had been knocked over up the road. We went out looking and found him. DD was distraught, so was I. We brought him back and DH buried him in the garden.

He was only 8, a big daft ginger. He dribbled on me when he got stroked. He used to sit with his paws all wrapped around our other cat. The other cat keeps going and sitting at the bottom of the garden where we buried him. I miss him so much already. Sad

Worst of all, we are having a new puppy today, it's supposed to be such a happy day and I can't stop crying.

Thanks for listening.

My lovely cat was killed last night (title amended by MNHQ)
OP posts:
catlovingdoctor · 07/06/2016 14:23

So very sorry for you. It's a horrible thing to happen and you must give yourself time and space to grieve as much as possible. In my thoughts x

timtam23 · 07/06/2016 14:25

Beautiful boy, I am so sorry Flowers

TroysMammy · 07/06/2016 16:28

I'm so sorry for your loss. Flowers

GRW · 07/06/2016 16:50

I am so sorry for your loss. He was beautiful, and obviously a real character.

Archfarchnad · 07/06/2016 18:47

So sorry for your loss. It's always so difficult weighing up a cat's higher quality of life and enjoyment if it has freedom to roam against the safety of being confined indoors. I know our cat would never tolerate being kept inside, but we live with the dread.

ShutUpLegs · 07/06/2016 18:50

It so hard, isn't it. We lost our Girlkitten in April and I was in bits for a long while. I recommend the tactic of hiding in corners to howl when the DCs aren't looking. It hurts.

Gatekeeper · 07/06/2016 19:00

What an horrible, horrible thing to happen. I am so sorry that your beauteous boy is gone. Sad.

PresidentOliviaMumsnet · 07/06/2016 19:18

Hi there OP
So sorry to hear about your boy.
Hope you don't mind, we've amended your thread title to make it clear who's died. Sending love and peace to you
MNHQ

ElegantDream · 07/06/2016 19:26

I don't understand why the title needed amending.

I'm so sorry OP Flowers

Heyheyheygoodbye · 07/06/2016 19:32

I'm so sorry Flowers

RustyPaperclip · 07/06/2016 19:50

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss Flowers I know how hard it is when they go to soon. I have recently experienced a terrible loss and I found incredible support posting here. I too have had cats that have been knocked over and it is terrible to experience. I try and focus on the good times, although that is hard at first. My boy was the world to me and I have mourned him greatly but I know we gave him a life where he was truly loved and he knew that, as I am sure your beautiful cat did too. I had posters telling me to be kind to myself and I want to pass on that message to you. Take time to mourn.

Vinorosso74 · 07/06/2016 21:53

So sorry you've lost your lovely cat. They may be fairly small animals but they leave a huge hole Flowers

callherwillow · 07/06/2016 21:55

Op Flowers I hope it may bring you some comfort to know he probably won't have felt a thing, he literally will not have known what hit him xx

BathshuaSpooner · 08/06/2016 12:17

Still thinking about you and your lovely boy. Hoping he is safe in the arms of the Mother. Xx

flippinada · 08/06/2016 15:39

Oh OP so sorry for your loss Flowers. It's always heartbreaking when you lose a much loved pet.

Goingtobeawesome · 08/06/2016 15:41

I'm so sorry too.

I lost my cat three years ago and I would give anything to have her back.

Hopefully the new dog can give comfort to your remaining cat.

6cats3gingerkittens · 08/06/2016 18:39

Mu ginger boys all send you a hug and a loving lick.Hmm x.

StillMedusa · 08/06/2016 20:12

So sorry for your loss, it is so hard :( xx

Umblubblub · 08/06/2016 20:16

I'm so sorry for your loss. Flowers

Lilacpink40 · 08/06/2016 20:20

Sad I saw my little female cat run over on the way home from school about 30 years ago. I've lost cats due to old age since, but there's something gut-wrenching when it's an accident and you know you could have had longer. Don't avoid crying and grieving!
I have an apple tree on top of my last cat (had him cremated). DCs like ro see it growing and think of him. Flowers

mypropertea · 08/06/2016 20:23

I am so sorry for your loss. There is something special about ginger boys.

LuisSuarezTeeth · 08/06/2016 20:56

I'm so sorry x

LuisSuarezTeeth · 08/06/2016 20:58

I lost my beautiful black girl the same way, she was 9. Hugs x

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