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My lovely boy died last night and I feel so empty.

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TroysMammy · 10/05/2016 20:20

Troy was nearly 6 and my only cat, his brother Barnaby was knocked over 2 1/2 years ago. Troy was diagnosed with hypertrophic cardiomyopathy and in heart failure at Bristol and after a short stay with them came home on 5 different medications which I had to administer three times a day. He had 2 vet visits since January as he had fluid build up in his chest. He just sat still whilst the vet drained fluid (550mls) from him. The vet said he was the best behaved cat she had ever treated. As he was now an indoor cat I saw a side to his personality I never saw before. When I came home from work I would call out "Mammy's home" and I would hear the satisfying thud of him jumping from the window sill and rushing down the stairs to greet me. When I was on the toilet, he would fling open the door and proceed to shuffle in his tray and join me in a wee or a poo and he would start nagging for me to go to bed once News At 10 came on. Last night he seemed fine, he had a brush before bed but couple of hours later he was crying loudly and gasping. Straight away I phoned the emergency vets, got dressed put him in his basket and drove off. Less than 3 minutes into our journey my partner said "He's gone". My heart was ripped out. I have been waiting for the inevitable since January, the vet said cats with this condition only last 6 months, but at least the decision was taken out of my hands and he died with us both with him and not alone. I feel totally numb. I no longer have him to lavish love and care on like I have. He is buried near the hedge he used to shelter under, in view of the patio doors and next to his brother.

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Wordsaremything · 11/05/2016 20:26

Oh troys my heart goes out to you.

RustyPaperclip · 11/05/2016 21:53

I'm thinking of your dear Troy and my boy tonight. Maybe somewhere, somehow they are playing together

TroysMammy · 12/05/2016 15:03

Hi Rusty I'm ok thanks, just a little teary when I remember little things. I must admit I have been bracing myself for it to happen since he was diagnosed in January. I just spoilt him rotten even more. He was such a good cat he never took advantage. Ok well maybe a little bit. He did walk over the kitchen table once or twice, not tolerated before and he certainly didn't do it either. Put it like this, not when I was around.

I expect it was more of a shock to you because you boy's passing was unexpected but he would have known throughout his life that he had won the lottery with you. They say cats only stay where they want to be.

I hope Troy is reunited with his brother and if they and your boy are playing together I expect Barnaby is getting them into mischief. My sister used to call him barmy Barnaby.

Take care and once again sorry for your loss, think of the happy memories and we will somehow get through it.

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TroysMammy · 12/05/2016 15:10

Thank you for all your kind messages and sharing the heartbreak we fellow cat lovers have experienced. Loving animals brings us so much joy and no matter how much it hurts when they leave us too soon, we must remember the love, affection and fun times we have and cherish them when they are with us.

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starsmurf · 12/05/2016 19:23

I know I am late to this thread but I just wanted to say how sorry I am. At least you can take comfort from the fact that you gave Troy a wonderful life. My cat may have inherited HCM so I have some idea of how the last few months have felt. At least Troy didn't suffer and he's with his brother. I'm sure they'll both welcome you at Rainbow Bridge.

gingerboy1912 · 15/05/2016 20:37

Hugs FlowersFlowers

TFletchersWife · 18/05/2016 11:14

OP I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and I will light a candle for your fur baby tonight.

My boy was knocked over on the weekend and spent 2 days trying to get home. He is currently in Bristol and very sick.

We are glutton for punishment aren't we? We get these pets knowing that we are more than likely going to outlive them.

But the joy they bring us is amazing and just comfort yourself in the knowledge that you gave him an excellent life and did all you could for him, thats all anyone could ask for x

TFletchersWife · 18/05/2016 11:18

In Bristol as in the vets

gingerboy1912 · 18/05/2016 11:55

Tfletchers I hope your boy pulls through FlowersFlowers

6cats3gingerkittens · 18/05/2016 14:41

I can only send sympathy and purrs to all of you worrying about or mourning for a loved cat. Have been through the misery myself, several times. Best wishes.

TroysMammy · 18/05/2016 16:10

Thank you both for your kind words.

I really hope your boy pulls through TFletcher. If you mean he is in Langford in Bristol they are amazing.

Although I loved and cared for Troy very much I haven't shed many tears but I'm not really an emotional person. At least this time around I can look at photos and talk about him as his death was expected and it was quick. His brother Barnaby was a different matter as it was such a shock. The details are too much even for someone who is not a cat lover.

We are gluttons for punishment, they do enrich our lives, except for the bird killing! I can't see myself catless for long either.

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