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Would this be a cruel thing to do to our cat?

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Dieu · 06/01/2016 23:43

Hi everyone. Your thoughts would be most valued, as I'm not so much a cat person ... my children adore our cat though! We have had our rescue cat for around 4 years now (picked by my ex, who has now left!), and he's a lovely boy on the whole. When we brought him home from the rescue, he was on 3 Felix pouches a day. Soon after, I thought it would be better for him (and my purse!) if I cut it down to 2 pouches a day, but with a bowlful of good quality dry food for in between times. So that's what I've been doing since way back then.
He absolutely loves the Felix pouches, and therein lies the problem. The stuff is like cat cocaine to him, always has been. I can't go into my kitchen without him following me, crying for more, sometimes only an hour or so after the last pouch. I am fond of him, but he's doing my head in with this. It didn't used to be so bad in our old house, but we're now in a much smaller flat with the main living area right beside the kitchen, so it feels like there's no escape from his begging!
So here is my evil thought: would it be ok, do you think, to cut them from his diet completely and replace with a top notch dry cat food (one that's highly nutritious and tasty - it's pretty much Iams at the moment, but I assume there's better out there?)? I could jazz it up sometimes with a bit of tuna, his most favourite thing in the world (beside Felix Grin).
I understand that rescue cats may well be a bit more food fixated than the rest, but this is something else. And I find it so difficult to ignore the crying - for me, it's quite frankly the equivalent of nails down a blackboard.
I want what's best for him, and he deserves that, but don't want my relationship with him to suffer. I know it sounds daft and dramatic, but that's what I feel is happening, in my role of feeder. He has no other health issues.
What do you think about this? My reasoning is that he would get used to the change in diet; he is a big boy so probably does have a voracious appetite, but is looking porky, so it may even be good for him? And he would probably beg for more Felix no matter how much I gave him, so in a way I might as well remove from his diet??
Oh, and if you concur that this might be a good way forward, some dry food recommendations would be very welcome.
Sorry, didn't realise this would end up so long, and many thanks in anticipation.

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RudeElf · 19/01/2016 14:11

Grin Op!

I am still giving butchers and i'm afraid his weight and condition havent improved Despite me feeding as much as he wants. I have noticed a significant difference in his poo though. On the dry food it was always soft and sometimes loose. But now it is solid and so much easier to lift out of the tray. I am going to take him to the vet because i an worried about his condition. I'm not altogether convinced it is down to the change in food.

Dieu · 20/01/2016 00:16

Hope he's ok RudeElf - keep us posted.

SkodaLabia - I wonder if it's because vets often promote/sponsor certain brands. Mine heartily recommended Royal Canin for our pup, but it is in actual fact a very mediocre food.

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abbsismyhero · 20/01/2016 22:24

have you tried a treat ball? i know they are supposed to be for dogs but i got fat cat a small one and he loved playing with it and it stopped the food begging as he could "get his own" as it were

Dieu · 21/01/2016 00:35

Worth a try abbi - thanks for the tip.

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