Our cat has his favourites.
Not me, who wanted a cat, stayed up late on his first night until he got over being scared and came for a cuddle. Oh, no.
Not DH either, who wasn't keen on getting attached to another cat really. He feeds and will play with the cat lots though, but Bailey almost never goes near him otherwise.
Instead, he favours the DDs. He plays more with DD1 and then snoozes on her bed while she's doing her homework.
If DD2 is around, however, that's where he will be. He has his mad hour after she goes to bed, then joins her and sleeps on her feet for the rest of the night until she gets up in the morning. In the early days, when I was telling her not to pick him up like a toy, I had to eat my words as I watched him sit at her feet and cry at her loudly until she did pick him up, then purr happily in her arms.
If she's at a sleepover then he will deign to sleep on my feet instead. And I'm feeling particularly favoured at present as he's asleep against my legs on the recliner of the sofa at the moment, but he'll sod off to her room when I make a move up to bed.