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Advice needed - female cat has been at the vet, male cat really upset.

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googoodolly · 30/05/2015 06:49

Background: We have two 2 year old cats that are brother and sister. They came from a litter of six and we've had them since they were 12 weeks old. They're indoor cats and have no outdoor access due to us living in a flat.

On Wednesday, we had to take the girl cat to the vets. Turns out she had a septic uterus, and they kept her in overnight for an emergency operation to remove it the next day. Operation went well and she came home Thursday night. However, she's had a cone on her to stop her licking her wound and as a result she's pretty miserable - she's eating/drinking fine but has spent most of the time sat with one of us on the sofa dozing.

Her brother, however, is NOT happy. He wants to play/see her and doesn't understand why he can't. She's feeling vulnerable and has started hissing at him and getting defensive when he comes close, but this just results in him looking lost and miserable and last night he was really upset that they had to be separated overnight to keep her calm.

Any advice what we can do?? I'm shattered from him being up most of the night crying for his sister, but we can't leave them together because she's so scared at the moment. They never fought or had issues before this.

TIA Smile

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googoodolly · 31/05/2015 13:07

She's okay - got 10 staples (I think the vet was a bit over-cautious this time because of all the problems!) but he was lovely and didn't charge us anything because he said the original vet should have stapled it or stitched it in the first place.

She has a check up on Friday so fingers crossed that should be the end of it - she's currently zonked out on my lap!

Advice needed - female cat has been at the vet, male cat really upset.
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cozietoesie · 31/05/2015 13:10

She looks completely out for the count.

Has Boycat clocked her return yet?

cozietoesie · 31/05/2015 13:12

PS - a bit ruffled from the cone she may be but she's a very pretty girl. Smile

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 31/05/2015 13:12

She looks happy on your life. Hopefully all we be ok soon. Just give them both as much extra fuss as you can :)

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 31/05/2015 13:13

Happy on your LAP!

googoodolly · 31/05/2015 13:17

He growled at her when we brought her back, but now he's sulking in the bedroom cleaning himself - which, to be fair, is where he normally is during the day so hopefully it'll start to get better soon!

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cozietoesie · 31/05/2015 13:29

He might be even better when she returns on Friday - the repetition of the event could go some way to normalizing it. Fingers crossed, anyway.

googoodolly · 01/06/2015 15:49

They're tolerating each other a bit more now - no more growling/hissing at least! Boycat has come in and rubbed noses with her a few times - I think he's a bit jealous though, because she's been stuck to me like glue ever since she got back from the vets!

Thanks for all the advice everyone Smile

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cozietoesie · 01/06/2015 18:51

Sounds like he's acclimatizing. Smile It doesn't always work that way but given that they were litter mates......

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