Right so we have our two, Margot and Coley a week or two off a year now.
I love them both so much. and very different characters.
Over the course of the year, skinny baldy small Coley has cinderella-d is now the BOSS to the point she actually hunts poor Margot out of the house, and especially when I'm around. She minimeses my contact with Margot (our living space is very open plan). She camps up outside Margot's "room" in the vertical tunnel house cat thing making Margot growl. Margot sleeps in the clothes hamper in our room sometimes (or with dd, or in her "room") but I feel she's being hounded.
What can I do to help her?? Coley is happy and secure, but I think Margot is not. She is a gentle and very timid scaredy cat