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Before and After...

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givemushypeasachance · 29/01/2015 22:25

Since I was recounting the tale of the Taming of Monty on another thread, thought I'd post some before and after photos. When I visited him at the rescue centre his pen-friend was quite sociable and let us pet him and pick him up, but he was a black shadow in a box that just glared with suspicion. So I agreed to adopt the pair of them despite never actually seeing him! When I got him home he'd been sick in his carrier but refused to leave it until I tipped him out after an hour of waiting for a voluntary exit, which he was not happy about. He relocated down the side of a bookcase where he pretty much stayed for the next 24 hours, until a combination of completely ignoring him and newly-christened Rolo going to sit next to him lured him out a little.

For the next several weeks Monty hissed at me when I looked in his direction or walked near him, and didn't let me touch him at all. At times I wondered what I'd got into since the poor thing still seemed just plain scared of me. But I kept trying to lightly brush the tip of his fur with my hand when giving him wet food, and he enjoyed playing with fishing rod toys so I sometimes could almost touch him when he was distracted by a game. We eventually moved on to hand-fed bribery in the form of cooked chicken too, even if he took it from my hand to eat a safe distance away. Less time was spent hiding away under the bed or down the bookcase, and although we had some hiccups when they were first let outside, the perseverance paid off after two months when he just suddenly seemed to accept being touched and I got a first audible purr from him - I still remember almost crying I was so delighted!

So now Monty will come to see me first thing in the morning and demand strokes, and if he thinks I'm not paying him sufficient attention he'll nip at my leg until I do - he purrs away and rubs around my ankles, and is a proper little attention-seeking monster. He's still pretty independent and spends much of the day outside, but is often lurking nearby and runs over to say hello when I arrive home from work. The lightest touch sets him off purring, and he loves affection and gets jealous so easily I really don't know how he coped with those first two months of seeing Rolo enjoying strokes and hugs but resisted it from me! He's just recently started coming for cuddles in bed too, which is lovely.

In a couple of weeks it's first annual checkup at the vets time, and I'm sure it will be a bit of a trial as Monty is still very nervy around strangers - when we had to visit to get antibiotics for an abscess a couple of months ago they were pre-warned and had an assistant with gauntlets ready, but he escaped under a workbench and had to be pushed out with a window pole Hmm. I suspect they may put the poor lamb straight in a crush cage this time, which is unfortunate but probably less stressful for him in the long run than another twenty minute Benny Hill sketch catch-the-Monty game! I'll have a bumper pack of Dreamies ready to make up for it when we get home. Thankfully he was purring away for chin-strokes within five minutes of getting back last time; at least I didn't get the blame for it! Grin

So that's Monty's tale. And there in photo two is his majestic floofy tail.

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sashh · 30/01/2015 08:51

Thank you for sharing, that's lovely

cozietoesie · 30/01/2015 09:13

I recall you coming on here when they'd just arrived and almost despairing of ever socializing the lad. (The tale of the decking?)

They'd been a long long time in the rescue hadn't they?

givemushypeasachance · 30/01/2015 12:45

Oh god the decking... that would have been a couple of days after I'd let them on supervised excursions in the garden, when they found they could get under the decking and decided it would be nice to take up residence there! And to go adventuring off over the fence, so whenever I tried to shoo them back inside they'd scatter under or over in the blink of an eye. Monty didn't come back inside at all for 36 hours, the little git - it was house arrest for a while then! And later once the decking was blocked up and they'd regained their freedom, left with cat sitters it turned out Rolo could open the cat flap when it was locked to entry only and was merrily coming and going as he pleased while my friends texted me in a panic saying they couldn't find him even though the flap was shut to one way and had been for two days... A modified £80 Sureflap has thankfully sorted out that little problem.

Both of them were from litters taken in to the rescue centre as strays, they're not related but only a month or so apart in age so were put together when they got a bit older, but yeah they were Autumn litters and I adopted them in late June so they'd grown up at the centre. Being all black and timid seemingly wasn't helping their adoption appeal, the poor mites! I'm hopefully making up for that now by spoiling them rotten as much as I can... Wink

Attached is a pic of Rolo as well, so I can't be accused of leaving him out!

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cozietoesie · 30/01/2015 13:00

Well this story (with pictures) is an inspiration to anyone who is considering a rescue cat. Although you did have to exercise uncommon patience for a good while.

Well done those cats - and you.

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RubbishMantra · 30/01/2015 16:28

You're giving those cats a lovely life Peas, no wonder they luffs you.

Monty's floofy tail is most impressive. Smile

Qwebec · 31/01/2015 01:55

this is so sweet! He does not even look like the same cat!
congrats!

givemushypeasachance · 31/01/2015 21:44

Thanks again for lovely comments on the Monty-taming story, though I'd like to clarify that part of the looking like a different cat thing is down to the weather rather than me; attached is a pic of him back in July and then December. To someone who's never lived with a long haired cat before, the winter coat change was magical! (I'm going to miss that awesome ruff come springtime...)

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Fluffycloudland77 · 31/01/2015 21:48

You won't miss it after he's moulted & shed everywhere.

givemushypeasachance · 31/01/2015 21:56

Hmm, good point. I might collect all the excess hair and felt it into a small model of him to use for voodoo purposes when he's being a dirty stop out past cat curfew, or if he takes up peeing on the sofa again...

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cozietoesie · 31/01/2015 21:56

At least he's black and there won't be white hair everywhere.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 31/01/2015 22:03

Awww, what a lovely story - they are both gorgeous!

I really can't understand why black cats are so hard to home.

RubbishMantra · 31/01/2015 22:05

I love his quizzical expression.

My little Monsieur has a long floofy tail. It's like he was given a tail several sizes too large for him.

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