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Old cat issues

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Picastyle · 26/01/2015 18:45

Our old cat, about 18 I think is going downhill. I just wanted to know what to expect.

He's a ridiculously fussy eater, we throw out more food than he eats. He likes fresh fish and chicken sometimes but often he won't eat for three days no matter what we tempt him with.

He's on thyroid meds and is almost wasting away he's sonthin but I can't force him to eat.

Recent changes in behaviour include howling at blank walls and drinking copious amounts of water.

We have a litter tray indoors but he likes to poop outside. Just recently he tiddled in the house and he looked as surprised as we did. He just half sat on the floor and peed.

The vet will say kidney issues and recommend a diet change but he barely ears any food as it is.

He's super affectionate, deaf and very chatty. Not sure what I should or could do for him. He's pathetically thin. a few weeks ago we were at the vets and he said just to monitor him.

Does anyone have any similar experience? Is this just what happens to old boys? He's getting a bit wobbly jumping from table to couch etc and spends most of his life on my lap.

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WhenMarnieWasThere · 01/02/2015 20:18

We had this worry with our own dcat, aged 19. He had been on thyroid meds for a couple of years and was getting increasingly fussy with food. He was wobbly and we started to put things in place to help him. We had a litter tray for when it was cold/miserable and he preferred not to go outside to do his business. We had water bowls on both floors of the house as he did start to drink lots.

He had a step to help him climb on to the sofa. Bless.

At one check up we realised that he had a a growth in his tummy. We decided against scans and treatment as we felt he couldn't take it.

For another 6 month sor so we looked after him.

His eyesight seemed to be going and we were worried about his kidneys. When he was unhappy he'd go and skulk around in the garden and cry if we went out.

On the last couple of days we noticed that one of his lower legs was a bit swollen. A trip to the vets to check it out and they said it might be circulation. I questioned whether it could be water retention related to his kidneys and they said it might. But to keep him warm and massage his leg.

I was due to go away to our caravan with DD2 and asked whether we should stay as a different leg of his had swollen. DH said to go as we'd been there so many times before wondering whether it was the end. And we knew the advice ot the vet was just to keep warm/massage.

The next day, predictably and sadly, I got a call from DH to say that he and DD1 had gone outside and found Dcat in the garden, labouring for breath and as they'd called the vets to see if they could take him in as an emergency case (it was a bank hol), he breathed his last, lying in the grass with DH and DD2 stroking his ears and giving him a fuss.

RubbishMantra · 01/02/2015 20:25

Ah bless everyone for keeping your old cats in loveliness.

MCat randomly yowls at the walls, and he's only 5. Confused

PeanutButterOnly · 01/02/2015 20:55

Hi we had to make just this decision about our 14 year old boy today. The signs were withdrawal from us and stopping eating. He was hiding under the bed. Instinct kicked in and we took him to emergency vet and were right as his kidney levels had gone haywire. What with that, the recent tumour op and hyperthyroid we just knew it was time. Grieving is not easy but I just knew it this morning when he looked at me and wasn't wanting his usual fussing. Take care all. This is the second cat we have had that has suffered from renal and its not easy

MyHovercraftIsFullOfEels · 09/02/2015 22:45

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cozietoesie · 09/02/2015 23:28

I'm so sorry, PeanutButter and MyHovercraft. I have a very old boy myself so am assuming that I'll soon be at the same point. It's very hard.

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