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Tell me about cat fostering

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ommmward · 18/10/2014 18:36

Is it pretty traumatic? I would really love to volunteer to do it, partly as a way of trying out owning cats (for the first time since childhood) and because the children love cats whenever they meet them. Has anyone here done it? What's it like?

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GerundTheBehemoth · 18/10/2014 18:51

I've done it - have fostered 7 cats so far (two pairs and three singles). Two of the three singles had serious health problems and I had them for the rest of their lives (2-3 years in both cases). The other five were healthy cats who in due course went to new homes - I had them from between two to five months.

Cat 1 - older female with mammary cancer, had been dumped at the vets, friendly cat, was v well for two and a bit years, then a few months of managing the spreading cancer and then PTS when the time was right.
Cats 2 and 3 - a semi-feral 12-week-old kitten who needed socialising, and her companion, a confident kitten about the same age. They went to a new home together after about four months
Cat 4 - eight-month-old kitten who grew up in rescue, total sweetheart. She had serious kidney problems, very well-controlled with diet for two years, then she suddenly went downhill and died within a week. That was the most traumatic, I had hoped she would live a lot longer.
Cats 5 and 6 - a mother cat found as a stray, and her five-month-old male kitten. Both a little timid at first, needed some socialisation, but no real issues. Went to a new home together after five months.
Cat 7 - older male from a difficult home situation. No health problems, extremely sweet and friendly - he was snapped up after two months.

So all quite different circumstances. Rescues also sometimes have opportunities to take a pregnant female or one with small kittens. The rescue pays vet bills and organises the vet trips if necessary, also provides at least some of the food and litter. My home situation (1-bed flat, no outside space) is not really any good for having a long-term cat but it's great to have them for a while. Saying goodbye is hard, but I know it's coming and can prepare emotionally. I suppose another issue is that I don't get to choose which cat I have! But I have loved them all.

GerundTheBehemoth · 18/10/2014 18:53

I should say that some of the healthy, rehomable cats at our rescue have been with fosterers a lot longer. Two were recently rehomed after spending three years with their fosterer.

ommmward · 18/10/2014 18:56

This is so helpful. What about if we were going away? Would they go back to the rescue temporarily or would we have to make arrangements?

I hadn't realised that fostering could be so long term - I was thinking in terms of weeks rather than years at a time!

It would be an amazing thing to do though...

were they allowed outside, or did they have to stay in? (we live on a busy road, so I worry about them getting run over)

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upandawayy · 18/10/2014 19:04

I used to foster kittens pre having children. We had over 100 that stayed with us, but not obviously all at the same time. These ranged from pregnant cats, cats and kittens or just kittens. The more experienced I got I took on harder things like pregnant feral cats or poorly kittens.

The first few times giving them back was awful and I actually adopted a kitten from my first litter I fostered. But after a while I got used to it. By giving them back for rehoming I was making space for more that needed help.

The worst was when kittens died. I lost six over the years, one was a whole litter. But I also fostered three extremely skeletal kittens who I turned round back to full health and that was just amazing.

For me I had one room I kept them in because I have my own cats, but if you don't I wouldn't see why they shouldn't just live as part of your family. It'd depend on the rescue.

ommmward · 18/10/2014 19:09

OK, and now tell me how to persuade OH... Grin

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GerundTheBehemoth · 18/10/2014 19:44

The rescue I foster for will take the cat/s if I go away, though would rather they stayed put and a neighbour came in to feed them (less stressful for the cats).

Because I've no cats of my own, my fosters have always had the run of the place (such as it is!). I think with nursing mothers they do prefer you to have a separate room, so things can be kept quiet and calm.

Some cats with particular health issues wouldn't be allowed out (eg my kidney-trouble girl wasn't, because she was on a very strict diet) but I'd have thought in most cases it would be fine for healthy foster cats to go outside - maybe not if there's a dangerous road to worry about though. The rescue would probably advise you, after doing a home visit.

GerundTheBehemoth · 18/10/2014 19:46

To help persuade OH, some of my lovely fosters :)

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ommmward · 18/10/2014 19:48

They are gorgeous...

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GerundTheBehemoth · 18/10/2014 20:12

A little more persuasion...

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ommmward · 18/10/2014 20:17

Grin I was after the rational arguments type of persuasion, but I could just tie him down and show him cat videos till he relents! :)

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GerundTheBehemoth · 18/10/2014 20:28

Rational arguments... it's a way of having a cat (or cats) for free and without having to make a long-term commitment, and it's helping out a charity and freeing up space for them to take in more cats in need, and your children will love it, and you'll meet new lovely cat-loving people through the charity, and... cats are brilliant!

isseywithcats · 18/10/2014 22:03

i foster kittens for a yorkshire charity, i look on them as being on holiday with me till they are big enough to go back to the center, having kittens in the house means you get a kitten fix and yes each one that goes back you send a little bit of your heart with them, but it is so rewarding, some are friendly and delightful to have as visitors, some are feral borns and that moment when a feral born kitten voluntarily comes and sits on your lap is indescribaly happy moment,

the center i foster for provides food and litter, blankets, a cage if ferals , letter of authority for vet emergencies

i dont know about moms and kits or older cats as i only do kittens but generally speaking you dont let the adults out or the kits,

sashh · 19/10/2014 05:37

I did it for about 10 years for Cats Protection.

You get to meet all sorts of cats.

The downside is the cats are not allowed out so you have to either keep all windows and doors closed or shut them in one room, it depends how your house is set out, this can be a pain in summer.

The positive - cats obviously. From kittens to old lady cats and all points in between.

You never need to book your cat in to a cattery, another volunteer will take them for a week or two.

I've also been on a couple of training courses provided by them.

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