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Neighbours kittens

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ShadowsShadowsEverywhere · 01/08/2014 09:38

We've recently had new neighbours move in next door. Towards the end of last week two kittens appeared in their garden, I'm not sure whether they'd just got them or had been keeping them inside for a few days.
One of the kittens kept popping its head over our fence and watching DCs playing.

Yesterday when I went to take the bins out the same kitten was sat on my path mewing. As soon as she saw the open door she was in the house. I ushered her out the back door, but she spent the rest of yesterday coming back in, or playing with the DCs toys in the garden. Every time something made her jump she ran to me and hid under my long skirt! By about 6.30 she was clearly hungry, had jumped up and eaten some scraps in my kitchen and drank DSs milk, so I shooed her back out the front door where I'd found her as she just didn't seem to want to go over the fence back to her own garden.

She was v v thin and seemed confused about where home was. Yesterday she was coming in the windows from the garden and mewing a lot. What do I do if she comes back today? It's obviously more interesting here as neighbours are out most of the day and we are home from lunchtime onwards most days and have a garden full of toys and balls etc which she spent hours playing with yesterday. I'm worried about how thin she looked but don't know a lot about cats or kittens so don't know how normal that is. Any advice would be v much appreciated!

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crazynanna · 24/08/2014 22:37

If you do pull the thread shadows, could you please PM me with any news? I would always be wondering otherwise. And they will be back to you. Cats know where the live is, believe.

crazynanna · 24/08/2014 22:37

Love not live

ShadowsShadowsEverywhere · 24/08/2014 22:53

I'm not going to pull the thread. If they see it then they know what I think of them. I do feel bereaved yes. And fearful for them. My fence is a willow screen so relatively easy to break it. Where they've broken it I had some lovely climbing plants which have been snapped in two which I'm also furious about. They've clearly shut them in, all windows are closed. I will be leaving the cat flap and landing window open for the foreseeable future and I will be watching for them. It's been very quiet and lonely this evening. I may have had a little cry.

I think they've either seen the thread or they've seen the window open, seen them in my garden and put two and two together, either way I think they are feeling possessive and that's why they've broken the fence. I think it has fuck all to do with them loving the cats or wanting them home and everything to do with "that's MINE". Hopefully they will let them out at some point. I'm not going away, I'm not giving up on them.

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timtam23 · 24/08/2014 23:00

Not much else you can do at the moment Shadows
Don't give up hope

I would be very Angry about the fence/plants too but I guess it wouldn't help anything at the moment

Hoping for happier news soon

Fluffycloudland77 · 24/08/2014 23:08

I'd have cried too.

SpringItOn · 24/08/2014 23:10

Twats. Makes me sick. They don't want to care for them but don't want you to have them either?

She's not broken into their house FGS, she's let two kittens out, that's all.

RustyParker · 24/08/2014 23:26

Long term lurker on your thread op and cheering you on but I feel sick reading your latest update - those poor kitten Sad

OddFodd · 24/08/2014 23:35

What complete fucking arseholes :angry:

I'm so sorry - I'd also cry in your shoes. I'm pretty sure they'll be back though.

If your fucking vile waste of space neighbours dare to say anything, remind them that they left them locked in the house for 15 days.

If it weren't for you, they would be dead and they're bloody lucky you rescued them and didn't report them for animal cruelty

HopefulHamster · 25/08/2014 00:08

So sorry OP, they're not normal - who would leave kittens for so long and then grab them back like that.

As others have said, you play the long game.

If they don't reappear - and sorry this is probably too soon to ask this - would you consider getting your own kittens, or would you worry you'd end up with four? They gave you so much joy, it feels really unfair.

wantacatplease · 25/08/2014 03:30

Arseholes. So sorry, OP.

ShadowsShadowsEverywhere · 25/08/2014 08:21

If they don't reappear because they've been disposed of or taken to a shelter then yes I probably would get my own. In so many ways they filled a hole in my life. But I think they will reappear, I believe they will come back to us.

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diggerdigsdogs · 25/08/2014 09:04

Oh OP. :( I've been rooting for you and those poor kits.

Hope you're feeling alright. Would you consider having a word about the broken fence or are you worries about causing a fight?

Do stay safe and look after yourself. As important as two beautiful little kits are your health and safety (IMO) is just as vital. Neighbours can still be reported for animal cruelty.

QOD · 25/08/2014 09:20
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crazynanna · 25/08/2014 10:01

They will be back, shadows
Just hold on
Thanks

Nessalina · 25/08/2014 10:07

Just seen this thread and read it all - not the ending I was hoping for! Sad
There's surely no way they'd have seen this thread?! It'd be very bad luck if they had...
Is there any way you can pop over under a pretence and have a conversation with them? You know a breezy 'they've been over quite a bit, I guess they must have squeezed out of a window, it's been no trouble'? Maybe bringing up the neutering is a good start - just say they've been spraying in the garden and you don't want the DCs to pick up the germs or something?! Say you're happy to pay as it's your problem?
Ugh. Why can't people just be reasonable?! Sad

ShadowsShadowsEverywhere · 25/08/2014 10:13

It's raining here so they won't be out - they hate the rain. Plus neighbours have shut all windows, so they have no way of getting out. I woke up three times last night thinking I'd heard the cat flap. I hadn't. Ugh this is really awful. I'm so worried about them.

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GobblersKnob · 25/08/2014 10:34

So sorry Shadows, really hoping they find a way back to you and get to stay.

timtam23 · 25/08/2014 15:47

I thought it was too soon for any news OP, but have checked in anyway, just in case

Hang on in there Flowers

Greenkit · 25/08/2014 16:41

I was hoping for your sake that the NDN had fucked off and werent coming back.

I would report them for animal cruelty, two weeks left on their own is totally out of order.

Pipbin · 25/08/2014 18:52

Just read the whole thread. What utter cunts, and that is the only appropriate word for them.

Did you get them chipped in the end? If so, and they do go to a shelter then they will show as being yours.

ShadowsShadowsEverywhere · 25/08/2014 21:31

Hi everyone. I have a small update. I'd taken in a parcel for neighbours on Saturday. This morning the man came and knocked for it. I just asked if they'd had a nice holiday, smiley etc. said that I hoped he didn't mind I'd put more fence up while they were away but I was getting more chicks. Silence stretched and I scrabbled around for something to say so finished the sentence with "and you've got a dog haven't you".

"No not any more" he says.
"Oh I'm sorry to hear that" says I.
He mumbled something by way of explanation, I think he said it was too aggressive with cats/kid. He then went back indoors.

So they've got rid of the dog. When? How?

They went out for the day and I went out and had a wander, all windows shut, no sign of cats at any windows. I checked again later, even peered in the kitchen window, just wanted to see that they were safe, but no sign of them.

So first day home and they left the kittens all day, shut in. No doubt without access to enough food. They came home at 8pm, so a long time to leave them again.

Its killing me that they may be shut in for weeks or potentially longer just because neighbours have got all territorial. I should have kept them in on Sunday, I have failed to keep them safe. They hadn't been chipped or neutered or wormed yet. I should NEVER have let them out when the neighbours were due home, I should have kept them safe. I am so so worried about them. He didn't bat an eyelid at the fence reference even though he must have realised I knew he'd broken it. Didn't even blink. Nasty fucker. They've been arguing this evening, I can hear them in my living room. The baby has been screaming. My motto in life is not to judge, but tonight I'm judging. Big time.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 25/08/2014 21:36

I'd judge too.

PlentyOfPubeGardens · 25/08/2014 21:43

Flowers I've been lurking on this thread since the beginning. You have done everything you could to keep these kittens safe, they'd be dead by now if it wasn't for you. You had no idea when they'd be back (who could believe they'd have left the kittens that long?) and you couldn't keep them in all the time.

I'm as non-judgy as they come but I'm judging these arseholes Angry

I hope and believe you'll get them back soon. I also hope the dog's OK.

MaxsMummy2012 · 25/08/2014 22:00

I'm so sorry it's come to this, been following your thread and hoping for a happy outcome for you and the kittens.

I'm just wondering if it's worth reporting your concerns to RSPC now, tell them about the holiday and how you fed them for a couple of weeks and how you are concerned for their safety etc - might be the kick up the backside they need to either look after the kittens properly or give them to someone (you) who'll actually care about them.

HavanaSlife · 25/08/2014 22:08

What arseholes

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