We have a 2 year old male cat who we adopted when he was a kitten. The problem is, his toileting habits are rather haphazard - he has access to a litter tray and does use it (or the garden) successfully BUT is quite capable of using other handy corners of the house when the mood takes him....I was sympathetic when he was younger but my patience is starting to wear a little thin now! Also, we have a lovely cat-minded neighbour who is happy to come in and put food down when we're away, but I suspect even she would have her limits when it came to clearing up...We also have an 11 year old female cat who has never had an 'accident' in her life - is it simply lazy male syndrome?? Any advice gratefully received!