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I want a new kitten or cat - advice please

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Frizzbonce · 26/08/2012 18:29

Hoping for some good advice from cat fans

My lovely cat died several months ago and DD and I are thinking about getting another one. I'd love to get a Siamese or Burmese. Does anyone have any tips/advice about any particular organisations to go to/what to look for?

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cozietoesie · 26/08/2012 19:07

Have you had a Siamese or Burmese before? (They can be quite demanding.)

Having said that, there are loads of older Siamese or Burmese looking for a loving person to give them a home. Google 'Siamese Rescue' to see - and to get the contact numbers/emails of the various organizations' Contact Officers. They may not be so keen to let you adopt an older cat if you have no experience with the breeds because many of them are either a little set in their ways (they'll come round but it may take a month or two) or are, perhaps, emotionally fragile/shy because eg their human died. It will still give you an idea, though.

They could also give you links to good breeders if you decide you want a kitten.

Also - many of the cat rescues are absolutely groaning with unwanted cats right now. Again you could google for the nearest to you.

Smile

Good hunting.

cozietoesie · 26/08/2012 19:10

PS - I'll leave it to others to comment on Burmese but if you're going for a Siamese, I'd go for a Seal or Chocolate point (less line-breeding up the line - and in my view a steadier temperament than some of the other points) and personally, I'd go for a male. (But the latter is just me - I find Siamese females a little 'hot'.)Smile

Frizzbonce · 26/08/2012 19:32

Thanks cozietoesie - that's really helpful. I had a Burmese as a child and clearly remember her literally turning her back and sulking if we didn't pay her enough attention. Also her yowling like a banshee at 4am. But she was gorgeous and so affectionate.

Off to check up on the chocolate point Siamese now. Thanks again!

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tabulahrasa · 27/08/2012 08:04

I don't know if she's hot or not - because I'm not quite sure what you mean by that, lol.

I'm not massively experienced with them in that she's the only one I've had, but she seems fairly typical from everything I've read and I have a moggy to compare her to.

She's lovely, but very full on - its more like having a dog in the amount of attention she needs. My moggy's sweet and affectionate when she wants to be, but she's out doing cat things a lot and sleeps upstairs somewhere...a lot of the time I don't even know where she is, unless I call her.

The Siamese - is there

cozietoesie · 27/08/2012 08:36

Now I did say that was just me, tabulahrasa! By 'hot', I mean .... well it's difficult to describe. The females I've known have seemed that bit more eg difficult, flighty, temperamental than male Siamese. (All things being relative of course. If you want an easy going couch potato, don't get any Siamese or Oriental.)

I was given my first Siamese at 9 years old, many many years ago. He was an old-fashioned Seal; hugely bright, very fixated on His Person, like all of them I've known following me around or calling me if he woke up and I wasn't there, a talented and imaginative thief and given to strange ways if I didn't do what he wanted directly. (Playingwalking up and down on the open piano downstairs in the middle of the night if I didn't let him out when he wanted to go - it was the days before litter - or sitting on my bedside table steadily knocking all the contents on to the floor until I woke up and got out of bed.)

I tell you Frizzbonce, if you get one, your life will be changed forever. No more sitting idly by yourself reading a book (without a morsel on your lap) or at the computer (without a morsel on your lap) - or, indeed, doing pretty well anything without a continuous accompanying presence if they're awake. Most of them get jealous of other cats (dogs are fine - they generally just ignore them) so are best as an only cat. Good with kids though. I recall finding my first boy being manhandled by small brothers, each of whom wanted to play with him. One pulling the front legs to them and the other pulling the back. He just squawked for me to rescue him - no claws or teeth.

They're very easy to train, have such a highly developed sense of sin that you can chastise them for a bad thought when you see it in their eyes, very affectionate to their family - and wont to sleep in bed with their Person.

I could go on but I better not. Breakfast to be prepared.

Smile
tabulahrasa · 27/08/2012 08:46

Oh I wasn't taking offence - I just wasn't sure what you meant, lol. I prefer male dogs, I find them more laidback, even though when neutered I know it shouldn't make much difference.

I've got girl cats because that's just what I ended up with, not through choice if you see what I mean.

Mine definitely would rather be an only cat, but she gets on well enough with the other one - though she's not allowed to come and sit with me, I definitely belong to the Siamese cat.

cozietoesie · 27/08/2012 08:57

It's OK - I knew you weren't. Just teasing a little. Smile

And I do think that you tend to carry on with what you 're used to. I (and other family) seem to suit male Siamese better than female. Although, OP, it's essential with Siamese and Orientals to have them neutered if you want family cats. Unneutered Siamese males are just killing machines if they get loose (even neutered, they won't back down from a confrontation with an aggressive male in my experience.) And unneutered females are just strumpets!

Porridge now simmering.

Smile
tabulahrasa · 27/08/2012 09:43

That reminds me - mine came into heat at about 5 months and was a complete nightmare to keep in, she can be when she wants out anyway, but she almost turned into Houdini, if she'd been used to getting out before being neutered I'm not sure I would have managed it tbh.

gindrinker · 28/08/2012 22:08

Reading these descriptions of a siamese makes me wonder if moglette is a siamese in a tortie coat
She follows, is nosy, has a fridge/ham radar, very noisy when she wants something - sings in the night 'Ooowww'
OP go for a rescue cat. They really appreciate the chance with new owners :)

monsterchild · 28/08/2012 22:39

My moggy is just like you describe, tabulah! But she's just a gray fuzzy rescued thing. OP, if you don't want to deal with the kitten stage (and depending on your DD's age, it could be a consideration) non-kittens are a great way to go! even being a few years old gives cats a huge disadvantage.

monsterchild · 28/08/2012 22:39

Disadvantage for being adopted, that is! they are awesome at any age.

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