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Jenda · 27/02/2012 16:40

We just adopted a 3 year old cat. He is lovely- affectionate and playful but very jumpy. His previous owner gave him to her MIL for a year or so and she kept him as an outdoor cat but when the owner took him back he refused to go outside and when she did put him out he would cry at the door so he has been an indoor cat. She had to give him up as her baby was allergic hence why we have him. We've now had him 2.5 weeks.

We live in an upper maisonette so we have an internal flight of stairs and a cat flap at the bottom so he can come and go. We have blocked this off so he can get used to the flat and he has settled in really well. For a few nights last week he had discovered the cat flap and was sitting in the middle of the stairs miaowing at it. We're not going to properly let him out for another couple of weeks but we have a harness so today I hooked him up to carry him outside and show him the garden and maybe let him walk around if he was brave enough

He totally FREAKED out, before i had even got to the bottom of the stairs and opened the front door. He leapt out of my arms and tried to run up the stairs (cue hysterical jumping all over the place as he was attached to harness and couldnt get anywhere). When i let him go and came and found him he had attached his lead and managed to get out of his harness and collar, so thank god he didn't go out! He does seem to be quite a wimpy lad but has improved. For example for the first week he disappeared under the bed at any sign of noise but now he is happy to sit under his cat post thing which is in the lounge.

How do I make him go outside?! Ive owned cats for over 20 years and never had this issue. I don't want to keep a litter tray inside and he needs to go out and burn off some energy but the poor thing was terrified.

Any suggestions?!

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Jenda · 27/02/2012 16:52

oops- sorry its so long!

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peggotty · 27/02/2012 17:00

I would say it's still very early days in terms of him settling in with you,especially if he's quite nervy anyway. It could have been the harness freaking him out maybe? Just give him longer to get used to things. I wouldn't bother with a harness, just take him out when you know he's hungry.

Jenda · 27/02/2012 17:23

Yes you're right, im being impatient! Thank you for replying

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peggotty · 27/02/2012 17:30

No probs Smile. I'm sure he'll be having a great time outside in a few weeks!

Abzs · 27/02/2012 17:46

We adopted two cats in January. One of them is very skittish. She used to stay out in her old home, but we've had to keep her in for six weeks just to get her to calm down a bit - for fear she'd head for the hills if spooked. She likes to run and hide.

We've just started letting her out a week ago. On the first attempt she stayed out for about 30 seconds. We're up to 30 mins now, but this has been leaving the kitchen door open so she can see me in there doing the washing up etc. She seems to be quite happy as an indoor cat now, which is a complete change to what her previous owner said. We don't have a cat flap in the house door - there's far too many other cats in the neighbourhood and I think ours are the only girls - so we're slowly working up to the point were she can be left out all day.

Maybe another couple of weeks until he's calmer round you? Can you go out and do some gardening and leave the door open so he can follow if he wants? That's what my DH did with ours.

ripsishere · 28/02/2012 07:19

Not sure cats need to burn off energy TBH. I am basing this solely on my two lazy boys. The stroll outside, do their jobs in my garden and then come back in.

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