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Goodnight Claude

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RoryCeilingCat · 01/11/2011 17:02

This has been a bit of dramatic year in the Cat household - acquired 2 new kittens, had our old girl go missing for 5 weeks (posted about that here), and today we sadly had our old ginger boy, Claude, put to sleep.

He was diagnosed with lung cancer a month ago, so we knew he was on borrowed time. He wasn't in pain, but he'd become skin and bones and his breathing was increasingly laboured. For anyone on here who's worrying about how you know it's time - you sort of just do. This morning we questioned for whom we were keeping him going, and concluded it was us, and that just wasn't fair.

So. He was a lovely characterful ginger monster whom we rescued aged 6 months, and who lived to 12 1/2. He adored DH and would sleep on him every night. (If you've read the Philip Pullman 'Dark Materials' novels, we knew Claude was his daemon). He ruled the roost in Reading, and coped exceptionally with a move to Switzerland where he again became king of our road.

And so we love him and miss him terribly (and I stupidly can't stop crying) but very glad we were able to send him off knowing he was loved very, very much.

Huge sympathy to anyone else going through this.

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usualsuspect · 01/11/2011 17:03
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HedgeHop · 01/11/2011 17:14

I'm so sorry, and am crying reading this. You rescued him and gave him a lovely, happy life, and that matters - his life could have been very different, if you hadn't been there for him. It's a lovely thing, to get to know and be close to an animal.

bibbitybobbitybloodyaxe · 01/11/2011 17:16

What a lucky cat he was to have lived with you and your dh. He sounds an absolute character and I am sure you will miss him very very much Sad.

ThistleWhistle · 01/11/2011 18:12

Hi Rory, so sorry to hear about Claude. It really is such a hard thing to do to make the decision but I am sure that you did the right thing. I had to have my old girl PTS last summer as she had cancer of the jaw and couldn't eat. I would mash her food up as small as I could and put the bowl down for her. She would try and eat it but couldn't open her jaw enough and would then just stand there squeaking at me. As she had hyperthyroidism as well she was always hungry any way, poor thing.

My cat, Terry, went missing the same time as yours in May, was it Maudecat? I don't know if you remember. Sadly we never found him.

It sounds like Claude had a happy life and was much loved. Sending my sympathies to you.

RoryCeilingCat · 01/11/2011 19:30

ThistleWhistle, it was Maud, and I do remember. I'm so sorry you didn't find Terry:( I recall hoping he had come home.

Sorry to hear you had a similar experience too with your lovely old girl. It is hard, isn't it - you build up to saying goodbye, but when it happens it's so hard. I know Claude was loved into oblivion - I was there, I saw him being cuddled and cuddling back until his eyes closed - but I'm in bits. So ridiculous. We accept this when we take on responsibility for them but the endgame is hard.

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TheOriginalFAB · 01/11/2011 20:37

I am so sorry. He sounds a wonderful boy.

RoryCeilingCat · 01/11/2011 20:47

He was. My favourite memory was of him hunting a pheasant.

Despite living in the heart of Reading, because we backed onto a railway line, we had lots of surprising wildlife (including several deer). One Easter we were having a drink on the patio when a pheasant landed on the shed roof next door. Claude was sunning himself on our shed roof and didn't take kindly to this. I *think he thought it was an exotic blackbird. He Serengeti-d to the edge of our roof, leapt onto the one next door, then did the best impression of a cartoon-cat-with-legs-rotating backwards I've ever seen, as he realised the size of the bird he was hunting. He slid off the shed, ignominiously, as we witnessed our Bank Holiday lunch flying away ;-)

Actually, it's only now I realise how he'd changed. When we first got the kittens (a year ago) he would still hunt birds (a bit), climb trees etc - they gave him a new lease of life. Now, I think he'd been an old saggy cloth cat for a bit longer than we'd realised.

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TheOriginalFAB · 01/11/2011 20:49

Bless him.

Mine saw a fox off a few weeks ago...

Fluffycloudland77 · 01/11/2011 21:17

He sounds a lovely boy. At least you know he had a good life.

It's not stupid to cry, we all do when they go.

Jux · 01/11/2011 22:43

So sorry, RCC. He had a good life though, with people who loved and cared for him. You can't do more except ensure a kind and dignified death. He had everything.

ColdSancerre · 01/11/2011 22:47

Claude sounds a supreme cat, love the pheasant story. I'm so sorry for our loss.

ColdSancerre · 01/11/2011 22:48

Your, not our

ThistleWhistle · 02/11/2011 01:34

That's funny re the pheasant story. It's good to remember all the funny things they do as they are all so different.

My little Terry was never found. I still hope that maybe someone has taken him in and he is living the life of Riley somewhere not too far away. I don't think so though but maybe.....

TheOriginalFAB · 02/11/2011 11:48

Until you know different, ThistleWhistle, let that be the reality.

Jux · 02/11/2011 17:40

That is exactly how it is, Thistle. I am The All-Seeing Eye, and I know.

MyLittleFluffball · 03/11/2011 00:04

Claude sounded like a beautiful, magnificent cat. You're right that often you don't notice how their personality/ behaviour changes gradually, until you get a diagnosis and realise how long things have been different. It is reassuring to know that you "just know" when it is time to let your pet go.

I am very sorry about your loss of Claude, but it sounds like you have the right attitude and are cherishing the good memories. It also sounds like you definitely made the right decision in letting him go, with his breathing being laboured.

Onemorning · 03/11/2011 23:18

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Claude sounds like a lovely boy.

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