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Do we or don't we get this dog?

39 replies

fendti · 11/08/2026 21:26

We've applied for many rescue dogs and been put on lists but not getting anywhere really, we have too many animals and children and none seem to fit the bill (we live on a farm).
We aren't mad keen for a puppy so trying other avenues first really.

Via word of mouth, we heard about a nearly 2 year old lab x cocker who currently lives with children but their circumstances are changing and can't keep the dog. The circumstances seem genuine but won't go into them on here.

Me and the children went to visit him in his home and he was lovely, a little bouncy when we were all sat on the floor but didn't jump up etc and calmed down quickly.
They then brought him to our home to meet our current dog and other animals, and that also went very well. He has good recall for his owner, sit/stay etc very prompt. He genuinely seems a really sweet dog.

Ideally we weren't looking for a dog with cocker in more in terms of grooming (we've had a cocker before but our current dog is a lab x terrier so much easier in terms of grooming) but it's not a deal breaker. Our main niggle really is they're looking for £400 to re-home him.

He isn't neutered, I've asked for vet records to see where he is with vaccines etc but £400 seems a lot for an adult dog. I was thinking more along the lines of £250 but they've said no to this. (I was thinking of a standard rehoming fee you'd pay to a rescue).

I'm just concerned that it's a lot of money and we'd have no rescue back up etc should anything go wrong. But at the same time, I know we could easily spend way more on a puppy plus training if we went down that road instead.

What do you think? I'm really torn, every time I think no, just go with a reputable rescue, I think how lovely he is and wonder if I'll regret passing on him.

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thebinkster · 12/08/2026 09:27

We paid £500 for a five month old cocker.He’s brilliant and well worth the money.

Molleeeee · 12/08/2026 09:46

The people selling the dog will be lying. It is not an ethical way to rehome a dog.

The fact they have done it before would be a huge red flag.

Lomonald · 12/08/2026 09:53

Molleeeee · 12/08/2026 09:46

The people selling the dog will be lying. It is not an ethical way to rehome a dog.

The fact they have done it before would be a huge red flag.

I agree they sound dodgy a pp mentioned a stud dog it could be that, the op could just buy the dog but with it in mind that these people have not had a "change of circumstances" but are selling a dog they don't want.

ForestHog · 12/08/2026 09:56

Our rescue dog was an adult and we paid 250 for her. Best 250 we have ever spent so I would happily pay 400 for a dog who is known to be well settled into family life if I had children.

Just to let you know that many rescue centres have behavioural lines that aren't soley for their own rescues - many of the big ones will offer advice for any dog!

AlphaApple · 12/08/2026 10:06

People sound like con artists. I wouldn’t give them any money.

nc42day · 12/08/2026 10:11

I wouldn't touch this with a barge pole. Anyone that was genuinely looking to rehome a family pet due to extenuating circumstances would be round your house vetting you, not charging you money.

Rescues ask for money because they're performing a service, they are running a charity and they have bills to pay....

xOlive · 12/08/2026 10:14

I know someone trying to sell two female labs, 2 and 4 years old.
Both have been used for breeding, puppies sold off, they can’t be bothered with looking after dogs with no benefit to them (they can’t breed from them again) so they’re rehoming due to a “change in circumstances”.

I wouldn’t spend £400 on an adult mixed-breed dog with sketchy vet history and no clear reason they’re rehoming two dogs in the space of a year.

fendti · 12/08/2026 17:17

Thank you everyone for the advice. Such a shame as he was such a sweet boy. I might need to brave a puppy!

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bridgetreilly · 13/08/2026 21:41

Agreed that seems a bit dodgy, but the price isn’t unreasonable. I’ve paid £395 to a rescue centre before now.

nc42day · 14/08/2026 08:59

For the work that rescue centres do, and the costs they have, of course that would be a reasonable figure to donate.

Giving it to a private seller for a dog they proclaim to care about and love, smells very fishy to me. What are you handing them money for in that instance? What costs are they covering? If I had to rehome a family pet I would be literally paying the right person to take them, not the other way around.

Viviennemary · 14/08/2026 09:06

I think they've got an absolute nerve. But it's not the dog's fault they are greedy cf's. If you think the dog will make a good pet then get it. Could you get it checked over by a vet first.

fendti · 14/08/2026 14:35

Yes this is the thing, fair enough maybe put a price on the advert to deter the wrong kinds of people looking for a free dog, but then if you find the right home, what's the need for the charge?
Either you trust your own vetting process for finding a good home, or you hand it over to a rescue to do it for you. It shouldn't be a money making thing. To me it feels as though they just see the dog as a valuable item to sell when they need to free up some cash.

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Gassylady · 14/08/2026 14:39

ToughLoveLDN · 11/08/2026 23:05

If they are rehoming him, why are they asking a fee? It's not like you're getting a puppy from a breeder, or from a rescue paying a rehoming fee... If I had a pet that I cared about and needed to rehome them I wouldn't be charging

Exactly what I was going to ask. They pay for neutering and then you have a dog surely

Frikadelle · 14/08/2026 14:49

I think that's a high price to ask from someone who is looking to rehome a dog. I'd be far more interested in my dog going to a good, loving home than trying to make any money from it. We paid £395 to a rescue centre. Our dog was neutered, medically everything was up-to-date and the post-adoption support was fantastic.

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