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I already know this would be stupid.....

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NewMaltese · 12/05/2026 12:40

As per title, I know it's not doable, but we have been offered an 11wo pup, which is completely perfect for us. BUT we are going abroad for 2 weeks soon, and altho my 20yo DS will be at home, I know that it wouldn't be fair to the pup to settle it in then bugger off for 2 weeks 😪
We also have a Maltese dog, who'd be at home with my son.

Pls tell me I'm right so I can stop trying to overthink it to come up with ways around it 😭

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Wolfiefan · 14/05/2026 20:25

I agree @TheHungryHungryLandsharks I have two lovely wolfhounds. I’m not well enough to do the hard work of having a litter. But even if I was I wouldn’t do it. I don’t know enough about the breed to “better it” with my breeding. I will leave the breeding to knowledgeable and passionate people who do have the skills to do that.

EdithStourton · 15/05/2026 08:05

Breeding 'for the betterment of the breed' has its own issues, though.

Firstly, if everyone is breeding towards one specific physical type, the gene pool will get smaller and smaller, with all the issues that come with that (high COI, increased burden of genetic disease).

Secondly, the image of the perfect dog of that breed cam become increasingly extreme, so we end up with dogs with no snout to speak of, or ridiculously long ears, or whatever, none of which benefits the actual dog, though it might win show awards.

Thirdly, other quirks creep in, because the show winners are seen as 'the best' by many breeders. The breed I own is increasingly splitting show/work and I have been told that what wins in the show ring is a flashy stride. That results from a straight shoulder, which isn't what you want in a dog out working all day in open country.

If you look at working type in a lot of breeds, there is considerable physical variety. The dogs are structurally sound, but vary in height, depth of chest, set and length of ears, coat pattern etc etc. Once the show ring gets at them, type narrows and working ability diminishes - I heard a gamekeeper say literally yesterday that it's now very hard to find a good working stud in the UK in the breed he has. I think that breed will end up with a show/work split like Labradors.

IMHO there is nothing wrong with cross breeding if the breeder has homes lined up, relevant health tests have been done, cares properly for the dam and the litter, and there is a purpose to the mating - even if that purpose is just to produce low-drive, relaxed, highly social pets. What is wrong is churning out puppies, pedigrees or otherwise, in shoddy conditions to make a quick buck, or breeding dogs that you know are likely to suffer because of their morphology, or with a very high COI.

Ohgoose · 15/05/2026 08:12

Will the breeder take the pup for boarding during your holiday? Some will.

bugalugs45 · 15/05/2026 08:24

I brought a puppy home at 16 weeks then left him 4 weeks later for 10 days , it wasn’t intentional to be that way ( long story ) but no issues whatsoever. He stayed in my house with my dog walker who he’d known since he came home so very similar situation to you. He was absolutely fine x

PartyQuestion30th · 15/05/2026 08:44

We went away for 2 weeks 2 weeks after we’d picked up our 8 week old pup. The breeder had offered to keep her but said it was probably better if she came home with us and someone moved in to look after her. My in laws moved into our partially renovated freezing cold house in January, with only half the electric ps working and no back garden light. She’s a perfectly happy grown u0 dog, it didn’t seem to do her any harm and she’s very bonded with the in laws.

changenameagain555 · 15/05/2026 11:37

Ohgoose · 15/05/2026 08:12

Will the breeder take the pup for boarding during your holiday? Some will.

This is what we did. An opportunity for a puppy came up in May but we already had a holiday booked in July/August for 2 weeks. The dog went back to the breeders, had a lovely time and settled in again really well when he got back home.

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