@TappingTed I really do feel for your dd. I'm only on my second night with mine and she won't sleep on her crate in the daytime, just last night and I hope the same again tonight. During the day she almost howls like a wolf if she is put on there. I know she will get it, but it will take time and patience. I've just put her in now as she was fast asleep on the floor, and she is still in there. When she is crying and screaming I wait until there is a split second of silence and then I let her out, just with the tiny hope she recognises that being quiet gets her out.
The amount of accidents I've had to clean up...well I've lost count. But, I have been trying to watch her tells and have noticed she gets really stressed about having a poo, and starts to rush back and forth. This happens approx 2 hours after eating. Now when I take her outside, if she doesn't go, when we go back in, I keep a close eye, and if she starts stressing and rushing about I take her straight back out. It worked this evening, but I was still out there almost half an hour.
I started doing a bit of training today, just getting her to sit. This is something she does anyway, she likes to sit and observe things which is just lovely, so she is getting a treat quite easily. She also does the little head tilt when I'm talking to her. She is learning her name and comes when called. We've renamed her, even though we like her kc name, I have a lisp and it would be made worse having the say this name. We also had a good run up and down the kitchen/dining room area, which I think she really enjoyed. Probably something she would have done with her siblings.
I hope tonight she is a bit more settled and we get longer between wees. I'm pretty sure I didn't soften the biscuits when my previous dog was this age, so I will reduce the amount of water I add. I also think she needs 4 smaller meals a day instead of three, and gradually reduce it back to three before going to twice a day. Anyone know what age they start having just two meals?