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6 month old puppy suddenly very calm.

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JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 07:20

We have a six month old Labrador puppy who is of working line.
The early puppy days were frantic- he was a big bundle of energy, very very bitey and never stopped. He was unable to settle outside of his crate and we had to enforce naps.
I’ve noticed a shift over the past few days where he is exceptionally calm and I’m a little worried.
He’s still eating and drinking fine, going to the toilet normally and still having his walks with no issues. However when we are home he is just super chilled- sleeping most of the time either on the floor or sofa. When awake he’s just chewing his toys nicely rather than running around with them and causing havoc. It’s just such a big change and I have no idea if this is normal or not. He slept most of the day yesterday.
I will add we had a very hectic weekend with getting a new sofa on Saturday and changing the whole living room around and then Sunday was DS 6th birthday so he got very little sleep for those two days.

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jamandcustard · 21/01/2026 07:24

The calm before the storm that is adolescence - enjoy it while it lasts 😂

Lennonjingles · 21/01/2026 07:26

My border collie was the same, we noticed he was becoming calmer at around that time and could settle himself. He’s 7 years old now, has 3 good walks a day, sleeps 3 hours in the morning and afternoon, the rest of the time he’s like a puppy wanting to play.

tizwozliz · 21/01/2026 07:37

It sounds like he's possibly maturing a bit and is exhausted from a very busy weekend.

I have two working labs and despite people often commenting that they must be a handful they're mostly very chilled at home and have been since quite young.

DramaQueenlady · 21/01/2026 07:43

jamandcustard · 21/01/2026 07:24

The calm before the storm that is adolescence - enjoy it while it lasts 😂

I was going to say the same. The biting does stop about now. The cloth ears will kick in soon. Basically dont listen to a word you say! Training out the window. But we love them. They do sleep and settle though. Good luck

JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 07:49

DramaQueenlady · 21/01/2026 07:43

I was going to say the same. The biting does stop about now. The cloth ears will kick in soon. Basically dont listen to a word you say! Training out the window. But we love them. They do sleep and settle though. Good luck

The biting has all but stopped now which is the biggest relief- he was terrible with me and I couldn’t go anywhere near him without him biting me.
He just seems so chilled for a young dog. He’s by no means perfect though- barks at the slightest sound, is terrible on the lead and tries to eat sticks all the time despite knowing drop it very well in the house. He definitely has cloth ears outside.

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JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 07:50

jamandcustard · 21/01/2026 07:24

The calm before the storm that is adolescence - enjoy it while it lasts 😂

I have heard this could be the case. Apparently you get to a point in the puppy years where you feel you’ve cracked and then boom- it all goes out of the window.

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JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 07:52

tizwozliz · 21/01/2026 07:37

It sounds like he's possibly maturing a bit and is exhausted from a very busy weekend.

I have two working labs and despite people often commenting that they must be a handful they're mostly very chilled at home and have been since quite young.

Yes he’s our first family dog and had many people tell me he would be hard work being a working line. Don’t get me wrong, from 8-20 weeks was a learning curve to say the least but he’s now so chilled I thought there must be something wrong. But he seems his normal self really- just a more sleepy and chilled out version.

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tizwozliz · 21/01/2026 07:59

My Facebook memories today from 4 years ago (pup was 7 months) say
"Loving actually being able to relax on walks a bit now, she's been so well behaved lately. Waiting for it all to go backwards again!"

It never did go backwards, so you might get lucky! I spent far too long worrying about adolescence that never really happened.

JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 08:06

tizwozliz · 21/01/2026 07:59

My Facebook memories today from 4 years ago (pup was 7 months) say
"Loving actually being able to relax on walks a bit now, she's been so well behaved lately. Waiting for it all to go backwards again!"

It never did go backwards, so you might get lucky! I spent far too long worrying about adolescence that never really happened.

Sounds like you have a lovely dog.
Mine is by no means perfect - in the house he is great but walks are still hard work. He is a puller on the lead and is a little reactive to other dogs- not in an aggressive way, but will pull like a steam train to get to them and he’s getting very strong. We are working very hard on lead training as now he’s bigger he’s going to end up pulling me over before long. He’s also obsessed with sticks and tries to eat them so we spend all our walks trying to stop him. But yeah, indoors he just seems super chilled all of a sudden.

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Maryberrysbouffant · 21/01/2026 08:15

Make the most of it. He’s growing a lot so that requires sleep. As others have said, adolescence will hit in a month or two so enjoy while it lasts (and give him tons of praise/treats when he’s being chill!)

jamandcustard · 21/01/2026 08:17

JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 07:50

I have heard this could be the case. Apparently you get to a point in the puppy years where you feel you’ve cracked and then boom- it all goes out of the window.

You definitely do! I was so smug with our beagle for about six weeks then it all went kaput 😂

GoodBones85 · 21/01/2026 09:59

JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 07:50

I have heard this could be the case. Apparently you get to a point in the puppy years where you feel you’ve cracked and then boom- it all goes out of the window.

This is my experience - mine will be a year old in February. Holding on in there and hoping that by being consistent with training we will make it out the other side 😂😂

BagaChips · 21/01/2026 11:07

Agree with everyone else OP, he's luring you in to a false sense of securityGrinOur lab x was an absolute dream, until he got to the teenage stage and then he was a complete dick for about a year. Labs also have a reputation for taking slightly longer to mature than a lot of breeds. Luckily it does get better again

JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 11:15

BagaChips · 21/01/2026 11:07

Agree with everyone else OP, he's luring you in to a false sense of securityGrinOur lab x was an absolute dream, until he got to the teenage stage and then he was a complete dick for about a year. Labs also have a reputation for taking slightly longer to mature than a lot of breeds. Luckily it does get better again

He can be a bit of a dick when he wants to be so I do understand this is probably the calm before the storm 😅.
Right now he’s tired out after his walk.

6 month old puppy suddenly very calm.
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Crwysmam · 21/01/2026 13:19

We’ve always had working line labs. They are not necessarily hard work. They are bred for athleticism, calmness and patience. A working lab is trained to sit quietly observing and marking birds as they fall to the ground. A dog that is vocal and busy is a liability on a shoot and the owner will not be invited back. There are long periods of just sitting but they need to be able to find birds and carry them back without messing about. Recall is incredible in a working dog and just sitting in a field for an hour is common.

Our first dog was an ex working dog and you could leave her in a field, under the command stay for 20mins and she’d still be there when you returned. My BiL is a gamekeeper and she was one of his retired dogs. She was incredibly intelligent and very focussed. Having spent her first five years of life living in a kennel and working 2-3 days in the week during the season she adjusted to domestic life really well. Although the first couple of days she spooked when the television was switched on and shot up the stairs but then couldn’t work how to come down them. She rapidly learned that the world was different and became the perfect companion.

Unfortunately we didn’t know she was in season when she arrived so was intent on getting out. She destroyed the cat flap and squeezed through the hole but then had no idea where to go so just hid in the hedge by our house until we returned home. Her safe place was always in the boot of the car so she went everywhere with us. She loved children, even though she’d never met one until we got her.

Our current lab is mainly from working lines, so is athletic ( well was until recently after a spinal injury) intelligent but is happy to spend most of her time lounging with DH. She is my shadow and everywhere I go she quietly follows. She would have been a fantastic working lab because she is a natural retriever with a super soft mouth. She’s also very quiet, doesn’t bark but does talk in the Labrador fashion. Shes learnt that moaning while carrying a shoe or trainer amplifies the noise.

As a pup she was mouthy and still gently takes my hand or sleeve if she wants something. If she wants to go out she brings me a shoe. We had to stop leaving a food bowl out because she would constantly bring it to us.

She did go through the adolescent phase but it just meant we had to go back to lead only walks and gradually reinforce recall. The big mistake I made was assuming she was food motivated. Her motivation is a tennis ball, we didn’t encourage ball retrieval but that’s just her thing. If I have a tennis ball in my pocket her behaviour is so much better than if I have a pocket full of treats.

Once trained a labrador just needs regular refreshers, daily during the adolescent period but you will see the quiet lovely boy Asian, you just have to be patient.

FrazzledLabOwner · 21/01/2026 22:19

Enjoy it haha. We had a lovely 2 weeks of calm when our Labrador was 5 months.

PainterInPeril · 22/01/2026 01:06

He's plotting mischief.....😁🐕

dennydan · 22/01/2026 12:07

I always seem to go against the grain here. I find the working dogs so much calmer than the show breeds.

If the dog is going to be used for shooting you need a calm steady temperament to be safe around guns and other dogs.

If you give the working dogs an outlet for their natural behaviour you will usually have a cam contented dog when they are not working.

Adolscence is not always a thing. Keep your guy busy with some gundog work with realistic success rate and lots of relaxing down time and it can easily pass you by.

Hellohah · 24/01/2026 15:18

JuicyDrop · 21/01/2026 11:15

He can be a bit of a dick when he wants to be so I do understand this is probably the calm before the storm 😅.
Right now he’s tired out after his walk.

He looks so much like my dog ❤️

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