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Dog reactivity advice

6 replies

Angelbunny · 20/01/2026 12:28

Just wanted to get some opinions on our dogs behaviour. Sorry this is going to be long but want to give as much info as possible.

He's a 10month working cocker spaniel, still intact, although we will be neauturing as he has one testicle that hasn't decended. No behaviour issues in the house, fully house trained, no more biting, excellent with 2 kids (10 and 15), very loving, no separation anxiety, no destruction, great with people/visitors and settles very well. Only issue we have is his dog reactivity.

At the moment I'm focusing more on training outside than 'walking', in the sense that I don't just walk along and let him do what he wants. We are out in the morning for 45mins to an hour and this includes basic gundog style training (we have been to classes) so do retrieves, searching, steadying and then around 30mins in evening where we practice loose lead walking and do a bit of searching. If he sees a dog in the distance, he will do a quick glance and then very easily refocuses back on me and no issues.

At the moment, I am trying to avoid having to directly come across another dog but it's inevitable really. When a dog is coming in our direction, first of all, I try to clock it first and will move dog to side and hide a treat and tell him to search and hope he doesn't clock the other dog. If I'm not quick enough and he sees the other dog he will instantly lay on the floor and stare (sometimes will literally shake), for now I keep the lead short but lose and if he chooses to disengage and look at me I will reward (very very rare he will disengage!). As the dog walks past he will continue to stare and then once they are past he will go to lunge (I make sure there is no way he will have contact with the other dog) and bark. This will go on for maybe a minute after (until they are a good distance away) once I think I can get him to refocus on me I put him in a sit and reward him for this and then he is ok.

As is all too common there's also the issue of off lead dogs with no recall, I always ask the owner to give space (I will already have given more than enough space to pass if they had control of their dogs) but the dogs continue to come upto mine, I stand infront of him (he's always laying down, staring) to try and block, if the other dog gets to his face he tries to back away and after a few seconds will lunge/bark. Normally by then the owner has reached us and gets their dog. One one occasion, the other dog would not go and owner was useless getting it back, my dog kept backing away, I was trying to block, but it ended with a bit of a fight, no dog drew blood but both were biting each other.

I want to get a handle of this behaviour and help him, I'm looking into a behaviourist but just wanted some opinions on why he's doing this and if what I'm doing is ok? He has actually been completely fine with any dog if he has met them offlead, he has loved playing, so I'm not sure if he just feels restricted on a lead? Or my other feeling was that he's possible guarding us? His reactions are worse in the dark and also if my kids are on the walk too.

Just to add, we did gundog classes for 4 months, asked the trainer and she just said he was excited to meet other dogs and will grow out of it. I think she didn't really know though and isn't the correct assessment.

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Angelbunny · 20/01/2026 12:39

He also has never had a bad experience with another dog (other than occasion I described above). It started when he was around months, although I could tell he was never that comfortable meeting other dogs on a lead. We live in a small village and it felt rude when other dog owners wanted to come and say hello to a cute little puppy. I wish I had been more assertive now and declined as doing this has probably contributed.

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Ylvamoon · 20/01/2026 12:50

Looks to me he's unsure and ccurious which can in time turn into agression. Does he have any doggy friends to play with? He does need to learn a few more social cues from other dogs.

In your shoes, I'd go back to formal gundog training class. They give you and your dog all the skills you need. Don't leave it and do not neuter.

Angelbunny · 20/01/2026 13:00

We have to neuter due to one of his testicle not descending, otherwise I would be leaving him be.

When we were going to training classes he was absolutely fine with the dogs there, it's just ones he meets out. I guess I feel a bit anxious going into another group with unknown dogs knowing it will stress him out.

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dennydan · 20/01/2026 13:26

You only to remove the undescended testicle and not the other one. Leaving the other testicle will help your dog have some testosterone to make them feel better. Speak to your vet there is no an immediate rush to remove the undescended one.

What you are doing is great but you are distracting your dog to prevent the lunging behaviour which is good management however it will not show your dog what behaviour would be better.

It would be better to make your dog feel more confortabe so that the dont need to display the behaviour at all. A good (quaified) behaviourist can help.

I agree abut geetting back into a gundog class (as your dog was happy there) to get them more comfortable and happy around other dogs.

TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 20/01/2026 17:07

Were his parents eyes unaffected/clear? I know a few dogs who exhibit similar behaviour and actually the issue was eyesight issues - they thought the thing at the distance was because their dog wasn’t scared but actually the dog just couldn’t see although it appeared to be looking in that direction.

I would find a recommended behaviourist and trainer who specialises in these issues (vet might be able to help). A gun dog trainer probably doesn’t have the necessary skills or experience to manage this - their expertise layer elsewhere (it’s a bit like asking a butcher to fillet your fish, I’ve found). I’d go back to gundog classes but not ask that trainer for advice on your dogs issues. Keep them separate.

Does he ever get any walks to just be a dog without any training or scent work? Not all dogs need entertainment all walk and if you’re overstimulating it could be part of the issue.

Sadly, reactivity has many route causes so although PPs and I can offer advice your best best is to consult an expert who can meet your dog and properly advise!

Monvelo · 20/01/2026 17:13

Reactive dogs are really difficult in my experience. I read a couple of good books, one called BAT behaviour adjustment training, which is about understanding trigger stacking, desensitizing using stooge dogs etc. And one called Feisty fido. I would say to do very short walks where you aim to have a positive experience. Clicker training or saying yes can be useful reward for disengaging by looking at you. You need to build up slowly.

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