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Please tell me your seperation anxiety success stories

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Tunamelt · 13/01/2026 20:38

We have adopted a little dog who has absolutely no tolerance of being left at home .

I am aware that separation anxiety tolerance is normally build up such as one minute , then two and so on .
However, she starts screaming in panic at a few seconds, so there is nothing to build on .

With out pups , we allowed a short period of crying , then returned the second they stopped crying.

This dog barely stops crying , and her anxiety sounds as if it escalates.
The vet advised not to let her cry( which I wouldn’t) as she may turn from a happy dog in the house , to
a more anxious one if we keep trying to leave her .

We have been applying the principles of the book ‘Be right back ‘ -How to cure your dogs separation anxiety…. But apart from standing up and walking round the house, if we go anywhere near the door to practice de sensitisation of the door, she gets anxious.

We are unsure how to orogress as the door and obviously standing outside for a few seconds trigger s her anxiety.

Are we better just letting her settle for a few more weeks - with us for 4 now.
Or work on this now.
I have no been able to
go to work , so in longer term we need to
somehow address.

She seems so chilled in the home.
She appears to be getting v attached to me and if i go to
the shed to get something out of the freezer she also squeals.
But when we attempt to step out of the house , even returning immediately, she gets in , what the vet confirms is utter panic .

Any success stories and methods much appreciated.

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Tunamelt · 16/01/2026 20:20

We were not told she had separation anxiety or we would have re considered. We were told that she could be left 3/4 hours .
when we contacted charity, we were told that this can sometimes happen and to get a behaviourist .

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Snoken · 18/01/2026 07:56

I think that she probably didn't have separation anxiety before, but it's the upheaval that has caused it. I had a dog who could easily be left alone for 4-5 hours, then we moved countries and I had to start from scratch again. It took him 4-5 months to be OK with being left alone again, and it was very gradual. I think you will get there by working on the dog being comfortable being on their own inside your house with you there too. You will see a shift eventually. One thing that has helped all my dogs is to have a place. where they can look out the window so they see me leave and then they usually just lay there and watch the world go by until they see me return again. I imagine it's like watching TV for them.

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