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Handhold - elderly terrier nearing the end

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CrazyGoatLady · 30/11/2025 21:42

Likely we are going to have to have our oldest dog pts in the next couple of days. He's 16, Border x Jack Russell terrier. Was a horror when he was younger, but has been a placid old boy. He's got dementia, possibly a heart issue, we've tried meds but he didn't get on with them. Doesn't want to eat much now, he's either lethargic or wandering around confused, poor wee lad. I feel so guilty as I've been away a lot taking care of an elderly family member who lives 3hrs away, I haven't noticed his decline as much as DH and DC, but I do think he's telling us it's his time. I'm going to ring the vet in the morning, as we are all struggling seeing him like this.

I'm devastated - we have 3 dogs of different ages but Buster has always been very much my baby. He's as old as DS2, who has never really known life without him. We weren't going to get a dog at that point, but we heard about him from a family friend, his owner was having to move and couldn't take him. The rest is history.

I know it's the right thing, it's just so bloody hard to let them go.

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Wolfiefan · 30/11/2025 21:46

Oh OP it is. But what your post says loud and clear is how much you love the dog and want to do what is right for them. They have had a wonderful long life with you. Still doesn’t make it easy. I had to make the decision in May for a 5 year old with bone cancer. We suffer and grieve so they don’t. X

CrazyGoatLady · 30/11/2025 21:53

@Wolfiefan very true. I know we have to be brave and do this last act of love for him.

I work in healthcare and am very stoic about sick humans, but if it's any of my animals, I'm such a wreck!

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GJMJ · 30/11/2025 22:34

I can’t imagine how difficult it is, my eldest boy is 10 and it will be so hard…. But you are doing what’s right and just be there for him 💙

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