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My dog bit an old lady.

398 replies

Milliemoons · 04/10/2025 16:43

And I feel so awful about it. He’s a chihuahua, he’s tiny but he still drew blood. He’s never done it before. It was super windy, I had my newborn in a pram and my three year old who was running off and I took my eye off him for one second and he just launched himself at this poor lady.

He was off lead but he usually is and I’ve never had a problem (he’s 7). We were in a public park where dogs are permitted off lead. Needless to say I won’t be risking that again.

She was really worried about needing to go to the doctor to be vaccinated (I assured her he was fully vaccinated and healthy). I apologised over and over but the poor woman was shaken up.

I just keep thinking about it. DH says not to worry, I apologised and I reassured her I would not be allowing him off lead again.

Has this happened to anyone else?

OP posts:
Mischance · 05/10/2025 16:14

She needs a tetanus jab - the fact that your dog has had jabs is irrelevant.

Your poor children - it will be their turn next.

Yellowpingu · 05/10/2025 16:15

LandSharksAnonymous · 04/10/2025 16:58

I'll get slammed for saying what I'm about to say... but now your dog has a bite history it should be muzzled going forwards - both for his protection and for people.

Your DH absolutely should not be saying 'not to worry.' And the fact your dog is tiny is irrelevant because a bite is a bite. The weather is not an excuse for your dog biting someone. The only 'excuse' - if we can call it that - for a bite is when a dog has been tormented repeatedly and/or is terrified and reacts (but there's almost always a warning 'snap' or grumble in these cases) rather than just 'lunging.' That's why many rescues have rules about taking in dogs with bite histories which, unfortunately, your dog now has.

I'd also take him to the vets if he's never shown aggressive behaviour before as i'd want to rule out any pain etc.That being said, if nothing can be found and he did attack unprovoked/with no trigger, I absolutely would not want him around my DC if I were you.

I'm not saying any of the above to be harsh, but once a dog has bitten...they shouldn't be around children IMO. Particularly young children.

All of this! Any puncture wound carries a high risk of infection. Where was the bite located? If it was somewhere like her hand then she would probably require preventative antibiotics and a tetanus injection if she’s not had one for a while.

Mischance · 05/10/2025 16:16

A newborn and a 3 year old and a chihuahua - what can you be thinking?

AcquadiP · 05/10/2025 16:18

Francestein · 05/10/2025 08:26

Good grief! He was off his lead. Don’t try and excuse yourself. All dogs should be on leads unless in their own house.

Says who? There's no legal requirement to have a dog on a lead in a public place other than by the side of a road, in parks where restrictions are in place and on land containing livestock.

Goldsandal · 05/10/2025 16:20

And all this ‘dog should be pts of they show any signs of aggression whatsoever’ - hmmm, where to draw the line? Is barking at a postman aggression? Or growling when you try to reclaim a stolen sock or whatever? We have to remember - these are animals! They are not going to behave impeccably on our terms all the time.

LillyPJ · 05/10/2025 16:23

AcquadiP · 05/10/2025 16:18

Says who? There's no legal requirement to have a dog on a lead in a public place other than by the side of a road, in parks where restrictions are in place and on land containing livestock.

You shouldn't need a law to tell you what's sensible. It's sensible to have a dog under complete control in a public place. So that means on a lead.

TheignT · 05/10/2025 16:25

Goldsandal · 05/10/2025 16:20

And all this ‘dog should be pts of they show any signs of aggression whatsoever’ - hmmm, where to draw the line? Is barking at a postman aggression? Or growling when you try to reclaim a stolen sock or whatever? We have to remember - these are animals! They are not going to behave impeccably on our terms all the time.

Biting someone and breaking the skin is over the line, not sure exactly where the line is but that definitely crosses it. Where do you put the safety of a baby?

AcquadiP · 05/10/2025 16:31

chaosmaker · 05/10/2025 08:35

I thought dogs had to be put down when they bit someone?

No, only in the event that the dog is an immediate danger to members of the public. In one-off cases like this (where reported) It would go to court if the CPA regarded it as worthy of pursuing; otherwise it would be a question of the police speaking to the owner about the incident and giving pertinent advice to ensure it didn't happen again. In this case, the dog is half way through his life and has never previously shown aggression. I can't see the CPA pursuing this case through the courts.

Harriet9955 · 05/10/2025 16:38

Could the dog be out of sorts due to the newborn/ changes etc. i honestly think you should take him to a vets just for a check over.
To people saying the dog should be pts, his is the first time this has happened, op is already mortified .

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 05/10/2025 16:40

Goldsandal · 05/10/2025 16:20

And all this ‘dog should be pts of they show any signs of aggression whatsoever’ - hmmm, where to draw the line? Is barking at a postman aggression? Or growling when you try to reclaim a stolen sock or whatever? We have to remember - these are animals! They are not going to behave impeccably on our terms all the time.

I think it depends on the owner and what they view as aggression. To me, barking at the postman or growling in possession of an item would not be acceptable behaviour from my dogs.

But this thread is about a dog making an unprovoked attack on a stranger and inflicting a bite wound. I don't see how anyone can deny that this is aggression and the dog is a potential danger.

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 05/10/2025 16:40

Hi OP, I bet you're worried sick now - I've seen this sort of pile on before.

I posted the other day about my dog barking at someone; was asking for training ideas and got a similar reaction (reminds me of that Mitchell and Webb sketch where they all shout SHUN HIM ...). I used to post here and get a lot of support when my last dog died so I thought yeah be great to get advice again ...well, mostly nope.

I did have some good advice from a few posters, but I think the very best thing I did was call the Dogs Trust behaviour help line, they've been a godsend. See what they say first. It is open till 5 today but it's nearly that now, so by the time you've ploughed through all this probably will miss it. Call in the morning:

https://www.dogstrust.org.uk/get-help/behaviour-support-line

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LandSharksAnonymous · 05/10/2025 16:43

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 05/10/2025 16:40

Hi OP, I bet you're worried sick now - I've seen this sort of pile on before.

I posted the other day about my dog barking at someone; was asking for training ideas and got a similar reaction (reminds me of that Mitchell and Webb sketch where they all shout SHUN HIM ...). I used to post here and get a lot of support when my last dog died so I thought yeah be great to get advice again ...well, mostly nope.

I did have some good advice from a few posters, but I think the very best thing I did was call the Dogs Trust behaviour help line, they've been a godsend. See what they say first. It is open till 5 today but it's nearly that now, so by the time you've ploughed through all this probably will miss it. Call in the morning:

https://www.dogstrust.org.uk/get-help/behaviour-support-line

Are you the poster who’s dog was lunging and snapping whilst you ‘wrangled it’ and ‘gripped onto the bannister’?

If so, yes, your dog was similarly aggressive and required a muzzle and decent training. It wasn’t a ‘pile on’ - it was several pages of people horrified you’d waited three months after the behaviour began to seek help and then minimised it as ‘normal,’ which it wasn’t.

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 05/10/2025 16:47

@LandSharksAnonymous hi again. Were you the poster who made things up that weren't in my OP? And have repeated those things again here? And were generally really contemptuous and provocative? And here you are again grinding someone else down? Nasty.

ChickpeaCauliflowerSalad · 05/10/2025 16:47

AcquadiP · 05/10/2025 15:50

You've had your dog for 7 years (half his lifetime) with no previous episodes of aggression. Do I believe he should be pts or rehomed? NO. There was a trigger which caused this bite. It could have been the strength of the wind. It could have been something being carried by the wind which spooked him (horses are frequently spooked by flying carrier bags for example.) It could be he is in pain or has some sort of physical ailment which is causing him discomfort so a vet visit would be advisable ASAP. There is no "dog bite register" in the UK as a previous pp stated. As I'm sure you will do in future, your dog needs to be keep on a lead around strangers or exercised whilst wearing a muzzle. But pts or rehomed is a complete overreaction. If he was going to be aggressive to a member of the family including your DC, this would have occurred a long, long time ago.

Any balanced post 👏🏻

LandSharksAnonymous · 05/10/2025 16:50

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 05/10/2025 16:47

@LandSharksAnonymous hi again. Were you the poster who made things up that weren't in my OP? And have repeated those things again here? And were generally really contemptuous and provocative? And here you are again grinding someone else down? Nasty.

Ahh, so it was you.

Actually, my first post was very measured and the OP thanked me for it 😊As, unlike you, she recognised it was a serious issue (and didn't wait three months before addressing it). Is your dog still lunging at people?

ChickpeaCauliflowerSalad · 05/10/2025 16:51

PumpkinSeasonOctober · 05/10/2025 04:09

I was recently bit by a dog and I was really shaken up. Your rat should have been on a lead.

There is no need to be offensive.

lovescats3 · 05/10/2025 16:55

Dog bites are very dirty, she needs a tetanus jab and you need to keep your feral dog on its lead

Loconos · 05/10/2025 17:04

LandSharksAnonymous · 05/10/2025 16:43

Are you the poster who’s dog was lunging and snapping whilst you ‘wrangled it’ and ‘gripped onto the bannister’?

If so, yes, your dog was similarly aggressive and required a muzzle and decent training. It wasn’t a ‘pile on’ - it was several pages of people horrified you’d waited three months after the behaviour began to seek help and then minimised it as ‘normal,’ which it wasn’t.

Do you have a link to the thread? I’m not a dog owner - is it considered a problem for dogs to be barking and lunging at passerbys?

It seems to be normalised in my building for some dogs to lunge and bark. I would say about 3 of the 7 I see regularly around do it.

I was walking past a guy who was next to the lift as I was coming down the stairs. The Labrador type dog immediately starts barking and pulling towards me.

Maybe it smelt my wariness but then another guy was walking past on the other side and it changed direction and lunged towards him too with a snap. I was a bit unsettled tbh

The owner didn’t say anything but I just raised my eyebrows and said yikes disapprovingly 😆 tbf to him it was under control but if the leash slipped or broke it does worry me how these animals would react in my building since they probably see the whole apartment block as their territory. I do question the wisdom of large dogs being cooped up in our fairly small flats.

I live in a rent to buy place but because of the behaviour of various pet owners I’ve decided not to buy. When I do eventually buy a property it’s probably going to be a house as my experience here has reinforced that I resent sharing spaces and paying service fees for communal areas which (some) dog owners kind of spoil somewhat.

AcquadiP · 05/10/2025 17:05

LillyPJ · 05/10/2025 16:23

You shouldn't need a law to tell you what's sensible. It's sensible to have a dog under complete control in a public place. So that means on a lead.

No, it doesn't. A highly trained dog with excellent recall and which has been trained to stay within a short distance of the owner, who is fully focused on what the dog is doing and continuously reading it's body language/facial expression, doesn't need to be on a lead to be fully under control. If the law required all dogs to be on a lead to be under control, that is what it would specify.

ParmaVioletTea · 05/10/2025 17:09

is it considered a problem for dogs to be barking and lunging at passerbys?

I'm a dog owner - lunging and barking at passers by is completely unacceptable.

As was the behaviour of @Milliemoons and her dog. Any dog that bites a human - even old ladies (who are generally seen as not quite human on MN) - should be put down.

LandSharksAnonymous · 05/10/2025 17:12

@Loconos https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/the_doghouse/5419294-dog-in-1st-floor-flat-barking-on-stairs-and-landingfoyer-wwyd?page=1

It is 100% a problem for any dog to be barking and lunging at people going past.

It is one thing for dogs to do it to other dogs - and usually the result of a bad experience (such as being attacked as a puppy, we call these dogs 'reactive') but dogs that lunge and bark at people are a very different kettle of fish and should be muzzled outside the home. If the dog is doing that to humans, it is absolutely not 'fine' or under the owners control.

I've said this before but if any of my dogs did that and the vet could find nothing wrong with them, and I have exhausted every option, I would put to sleep. Dogs are too powerful - even little ones - to be out of control and lunging at people.

Littlemrsconfetti · 05/10/2025 17:12

It sounds all too much a dog with 2 DC OP. You have also given the poor woman the wrong advice. She needs to go to the hospital for a bite! Any bite you would need to to the hospital... I hope the lady goes she could get a serious infection. Theres so much bacteria even in a humans mouth.

EarthSight · 05/10/2025 17:14

AcquadiP · 05/10/2025 16:06

Why is it "very probable" that the dog will turn on the baby when he never did so when the toddler was a baby?

Because as OP said, he's never bitten anyone before, so this is new behaviour. He bit a woman who was apparently not doing anything to him, so if he's willing to do that unprovoked, it's probable that he will bite if he is aggravated, and high pitched noises and unwanted petting or rough handling from children are likely to be much more aggravating to most dogs than someone who is minding their own business.

Come on. Does this really need to be spelled out???

AcquadiP · 05/10/2025 17:16

LillyPJ · 05/10/2025 16:06

You have no idea whether the dog will be aggressive to a family member or anyone else in the future. I'm sure the owner would have said previously that the dog wouldn't bite anyone. But it did. A dog is an animal and therefore not totally predictable.

Aggressive behaviour in dogs typically comes to light in the first 6 months to two years of the dog's life. Unless there is a physical cause behind the aggression, it is very rare for a dog to reach middle age and suddenly start acting aggressively. This is my experience over a 20 year period of working as a qualified dog behaviourist with thousands of dogs. And I disagree that dogs are unpredictable. Dogs are actually highly predictable when you know how to read them, which sadly a lot of owners don't.

AcquadiP · 05/10/2025 17:16

Aggressive behaviour in dogs typically comes to light in the first 6 months to two years of the dog's life. Unless there is a physical cause behind the aggression, it is very rare for a dog to reach middle age and suddenly start acting aggressively. This is my experience over a 20 year period of working as a qualified dog behaviourist with thousands of dogs. And I disagree that dogs are unpredictable. Dogs are actually highly predictable when you know how to read them, which sadly a lot of owners don't.