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My heart is in pieces. My dog's euthanasia is tomorrow

35 replies

PlantDoctor · 01/10/2025 21:43

We've had our wonderful greyhound for 9 years and tomorrow he will say his final goodbyes. I am devastated as he's always been my shadow. He would sit with me while I worked and accompany my on lovely walks both alone, with DH, and especially DD as a baby, toddler and now child.

I am not sure how I'll cope. He's my baby and I'm in agony at the idea of him not being here anymore.

He developed subcutaneous haemangiosarcoma at the start of the year. He had surgery to remove it in Feb but it came back in April. He had chemo to slow the growth from May until now, which gave him a lovely final summer, but the tumour is now fairly large. He is still happy pootling about though. On Monday I spotted what looked like an ingrown hair or boil, and the vet and I were concerned it was starting to form an ulcer. It has grown quickly in the past two days and looks like it must be painful, although he doesn't show it. I don't want it to burst and him be in agony so we made the decision for euthanasia while he's still feeling OK.

My poor love, I will miss him forever.

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KilkennyCats · 01/10/2025 21:47

So very sorry, op. Been there 💔

Alhambraeva · 01/10/2025 21:51

I’m so sorry. What love you have shown for him and what a lucky dog to have you end and prevent any suffering. I’d do the same but I do know how horrendous it is for you. Much love and I hope it is the peaceful dignified ending your boy deserves. I’m sure it will be. X

Filofaxforlife · 01/10/2025 21:52

So sorry for what you’re going through. X

Wolfiefan · 01/10/2025 21:54

Oh OP I’m so sorry. I had to let one of my hounds go in May due to bone cancer. It’s awful for you but you are saving your beloved dog from pain and suffering. I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow.

TheLilacStork · 01/10/2025 21:55

Thinking of you and your lovely boy

Trees6 · 01/10/2025 21:56

I’ve been through it recently. I understand how you’re feeling.

Tomorrow will be hard but remember you’re doing the humane thing, it’s your job to make decisions for your dog and to advocate for his welfare, which is exactly what you’ve done.

Iwantcollarbones · 01/10/2025 22:00

It’s the worse thing in the world but you’re doing it for the right reasons; he will suffer if you don’t.

I had to put my lab down 3 years ago. He had lung cancer. The vet said they could remove the lung but the cancer had spread to his voice box so they’d have to partially remove that which would have meant that every time he ate or drunk he would probably aspirate into his good lung. The morning I before the last vet appointment I brought him McDonalds and he had a whole packet of malteasers. If he had two brain cells to rub together he probably would have figured out where we were going but it was probably the best day ever for him. I still miss him so much I haven’t got another dog.

Your boy has only known your love for the past 9 years. He will pass in the kindest way you can provide for him. It’s the most difficult thing for you, but the ultimate kindness for him.

I am so sorry you have to make this decision. I’m sending you all the strength I can.

ByLilacMember · 01/10/2025 22:07

I'm sorry you're going through this. It's so hard making these decisions but take comfort in the fact that you're doing the right thing for your doggo although hard for you

MontyDonsBlueScarf · 01/10/2025 22:09

Sending love, I had to do the same last week. Still pootling about is absolutely the right time to do it. It sounds as if it's neither reversible nor manageable so sending him gently over the bridge now is an amazing gift.

I took lots of videos in the last few days and I'm very glad now that I have them as the more I look at them, the more I can see that it was time. I was so worried in her last days that I couldn't think straight but now that that worry has gone, I can see things that I couldn't at the time.

My lovely girlie drifted off peacefully, I wish the same for your boy and I'll ask her to keep a special look out for him.

Suzylola22 · 01/10/2025 22:11

Its such an awful decision to make but in time you will know you it was the right one. Its hard to see them so unwell and suffering. Ask the vet to have time with your dog and take some paw prints and if you can get a little fur or hair you will treasure these reminders.

CatsCatsCatsLoveThem · 01/10/2025 22:34

You are doing this for love. I know it is heartbreaking. You are doing the right thing for him. I wish I could hug you. Ive been there.

PlantDoctor · 01/10/2025 22:37

Thank you so for the support. It really means so much. Looking at him I know it's the right time as it must be sore. In recent weeks I was dreading going too early or too late, but I am glad to feel relatively sure in the decision now. I feel like I've been run over I've been crying so much.

Sorry for all of you who have lots your lovely dogs too. They really are such amazing best friends. I will be so lost without him.

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Frenchfemme · 01/10/2025 22:50

I am very sorry that you are having to go through this, but I am so glad your lovely boy had a last wonderful summer. He will pass feeling loved. Thinking of him.

PlantDoctor · 02/10/2025 00:19

Just remembered 2nd Oct is his gotcha day. Exactly 9 years with our boy.

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iamnotalemon · 02/10/2025 00:58

I’m really sorry x

ChickpeaCauliflowerSalad · 02/10/2025 01:00

PlantDoctor · 02/10/2025 00:19

Just remembered 2nd Oct is his gotcha day. Exactly 9 years with our boy.

💔

lots & lots of HUGS.

you're doing the right thing, but you know that. Doing the right thing isn't easy. But your love for him will get you through it xx

Letsgoforaskip · 02/10/2025 11:21

Sending you lots of love. I had just been thinking about my greyhound who I lost last summer when I saw your thread. I think you are absolutely doing the right thing saving him from suffering; so hard for you but a hundred percent better for him. Grief is the price we pay for love. Look after yourself and be proud that you gave him such a great life where he was truly loved 🥰💐

DipsyDee · 02/10/2025 11:27

I am so sorry to read this. But what a wonderful life full of love and family that you’ve given him and you are still doing the very best thing for him despite it being the very worst thing for you. Sending the biggest hug.

PlantDoctor · 02/10/2025 18:08

He's gone. The vet said he thought it was the exact right time. It was very peaceful and he was surrounded by love. It felt very strange leaving him there and coming home to an empty house is heartbreaking all over again. Thank you all for your support. It really did mean a lot as I tried to stay strong for him.

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DipsyDee · 02/10/2025 18:35

Sending love and strength to you

Suzylola22 · 02/10/2025 18:43

Thinking of you.Its such a hard time and you are probably feeling very numb. Keep thinking about the good times you had.

RaraRachael · 02/10/2025 19:08

So sorry. Greyhounds are the sweetest, most adorable dogs.
It's hard but you have 9 years of wonderful memories with your beautiful boy to treasure ❤️

MissNixs · 02/10/2025 19:11

So sorry to read this. I lost my old lady in May. Sending love 🪻

FranticFrankie · 02/10/2025 19:11

Sorry for the loss of your lovely boy 🐾💐

Antimimisti · 02/10/2025 19:13

I'm so sorry, OP. You gave him the last and best gift you can give - a peaceful, loving and painless death.

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