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AIBU to think this isn't really my problem...

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r2c3po · 31/08/2025 17:30

We moved into our current house 11 years ago. We adopted an older greyhound who was about 7 at the time. About a year later my NDN bought a puppy and basically made no attempts to train it. Our dog (who had spent most of his life in kennels) never reacted to it unless it was persistently left to bark at the shared fence. When that happened, we let our dog give him a couple of woofs before calling him in (which he reliably did). NDN then gave that puppy away and a few months later got a new one which they to bark persistently at the shared perimeter. By this time our old dog was too settled to care, so didn't react.

Our dog old passed away earlier in the year, we've since adopted a couple of young rescue dogs. No real issues with barking. There's a breeder at the back of our house with dogs barking all day,...until School summer break where the neighbours expect to be able to let their untrained dog to continue to bark as much as it likes. We've always applied the '2woofs and you're in' command to our dogs and it's consistent. A few days ago, NDN approached me, for the first time, to want to introduce our dogs on a walk. I think they want a scenario where they can continue to let their dogs bark as much as they want with v little intervention/training from themselves.

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r2c3po · 01/09/2025 08:26

Laxonaweekend · 01/09/2025 08:19

This walk…. Oh to be a fly on the wall! 😆

I expect it will be pretty underwhelming, but if it happens I'll post an update. My dog met up with some of her puppies recently and basically ignored them and stood by the gate waiting to go home 😆. I don't think she'll want to be best buds with the neighbour's dog either, but you never know!

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Laxonaweekend · 01/09/2025 08:31

r2c3po · 01/09/2025 08:26

I expect it will be pretty underwhelming, but if it happens I'll post an update. My dog met up with some of her puppies recently and basically ignored them and stood by the gate waiting to go home 😆. I don't think she'll want to be best buds with the neighbour's dog either, but you never know!

try to be friendly OP
she is making an effort

deadpan · 01/09/2025 08:40

r2c3po Good luck with your next house. Too many people think barking is just something dogs do. They do what they're allowed to do basically. You can see that played out on "Dogs behaving badly" every single week.

r2c3po · 01/09/2025 08:50

Laxonaweekend · 01/09/2025 08:31

try to be friendly OP
she is making an effort

How am I being unfriendly? I was perfectly polite to her when she asked about the walk and told her it was a good idea. I asked her to let me know when is a good time for her.

I don't think walking them together will suddenly stop her dog from barking, she needs to make the effort to train it. One of my dogs is a GSD, so would be barking all day long and at everything if we hadn't made a conscious effort to train her.

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Laxonaweekend · 01/09/2025 09:12

r2c3po · 01/09/2025 08:50

How am I being unfriendly? I was perfectly polite to her when she asked about the walk and told her it was a good idea. I asked her to let me know when is a good time for her.

I don't think walking them together will suddenly stop her dog from barking, she needs to make the effort to train it. One of my dogs is a GSD, so would be barking all day long and at everything if we hadn't made a conscious effort to train her.

Call it spidey senses OP 😆

r2c3po · 01/09/2025 09:16

deadpan · 01/09/2025 08:40

r2c3po Good luck with your next house. Too many people think barking is just something dogs do. They do what they're allowed to do basically. You can see that played out on "Dogs behaving badly" every single week.

Thanks, they're definitely in the camp that barking is just what dogs do. It's only an issue for them now I have dogs who will give them a woof back and it sets their's off too much for their liking and they don't know how to get it to be quiet. To me, it's just normal and common sense to bring the dog inside if it's being a nuisance, so you're not bothering your neighbours.

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Shelly369 · 01/09/2025 09:21

r2c3po · 01/09/2025 09:16

Thanks, they're definitely in the camp that barking is just what dogs do. It's only an issue for them now I have dogs who will give them a woof back and it sets their's off too much for their liking and they don't know how to get it to be quiet. To me, it's just normal and common sense to bring the dog inside if it's being a nuisance, so you're not bothering your neighbours.

Common sense seems to be in short supply lately.

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