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Worked from home dogs whole life, now might have to go back full time on site

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HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 18/07/2025 14:00

(Nothing to do with COVID)

DDog is nearly 9 and I've worked almost exclusively from home for 20+ years, during which time I was also married and Ex-H was mostly retired. But since splitting from ex it's been difficult to make sure he's not left alone. On rare days I do go into the office I do a shortish day and he has a dog walker at lunchtime; I don't really like leaving him at all (currently living in a flat so no garden) but if I go out I do the maximum 4-5 hours thing. Still hate leaving him though.

Now life has taken a crap turn and I am facing redundancy - I am mid-60s and struggle with any tech so I am worried about getting another office job where I can work from home; my job is quite specialist, I am not very good at it anyway and as time has gone on technology has overtaken me. So I might end up just taking a supermarket job or something (still have mortgage).

So sad that DDog might have to endure 5 days a week home alone 8-6. Obvs life is now in turmoil with the threat of redundancy but this element of it, worry about leaving the dog, I know I won't get any sympathy for - no point in posting elsewhere on MN, and most people in RL are either aghast I still have a mortgage, thinking I should just move to a cheaper area, or that I should have foreseen this and stayed with Ex-h! I don't think there is a solution other than of course, attempt to get a wfh job but at my age and my skills not up to date I think it's going to be a massive struggle. Oh and I have ADHD so I don't learn new things very well.

Bugger!

OP posts:
Coffeeishot · 20/07/2025 09:08

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 20/07/2025 08:22

Sorry, I didn’t mean to sound quite so negative!

It’s just a lot of people set up at this time of year when it’s warm and sunny, but they then give up in November when they’re in their third week of trudging through mud and having to dry out a van load of dog towels (again) because everything is just constantly damp 🤣

That is ok you were just honest, and it really takes a hardy person .

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 20/07/2025 09:14

Coffeeishot · 20/07/2025 09:08

That is ok you were just honest, and it really takes a hardy person .

Or a slightly mad person Grin

Coffeeishot · 20/07/2025 09:17

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 20/07/2025 09:14

Or a slightly mad person Grin

And that 😂 my dog walker is great she is the only other person my dog will be well mannered for !

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 20/07/2025 09:18

Coffeeishot · 20/07/2025 09:17

And that 😂 my dog walker is great she is the only other person my dog will be well mannered for !

I absolutely love it really, but there are day when I question my life choices, that's for sure, lol.

I often get customers telling me their dogs never do X for them but they do it for me quite happily!

caramac04 · 20/07/2025 09:36

Do you like children? Could you register as a childminder? Obviously ddog needs to be good with children if it were something you might consider and some parents won’t use a CM with a dog.
Anything term time like school admin or a science/art technician. The hours aren’t as long and you have the holidays too.
Would your experience with your daughters additional needs equip you to offer more specialist childcare? That could be overnight respite care when your daughter is at uni.
Maybe agency work and work 4 days with a day off in the middle.
Supermarkets often offer 4 hour shifts so you could perhaps do 0800-1200 and 1600-2000
Not the greatest for you I realise but would save on dog walking fees.

Pubgarden · 20/07/2025 09:53

When this happened to me I left my job, downsized my home to off the mortgage and started a part time job because my outgoing were less. I was your age at the time OP and am much happier now in every respect. My dear little dog died a couple of years later and I was glad we had the time together.

I hope you find a happy solution for you and your pup. Life can be so bloody tricky some times.

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