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I know this is a terrible decision but...

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Unmute · 25/06/2025 08:33

I lost my beautiful staffie last week. She had lung cancer and I had to have her put her to sleep last Tuesday. I only had her for 6 years (she was an adult when I adopted her - unknown age), but she was my best friend and my entire life revolved around her routine.

I'm lost without her. I live alone and the house is horrible and empty.

I have put down a deposit on a staffie pup. She'll be ready to come home towards the end of July.

I know this is the wrong thing to do, and I know the pup won't replace my best girl, but I really can't cope without a dog.

All the things I like doing (walking/hiking, sitting in the park with a coffee, leaving social events early and going home to lie on the couch) are better with a dog.

I have had puppies before, so I know what I'm in for, and I have plans for dogsitters/walkers when I need to leave her. I work mostly from home and will work entirely from home until the pup is old enough to be left for a couple of hours. I don't think I have completely lost my mind.

Please talk to me about your crazy wrong dog related decisions that turned out alright!

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aperolspritzbasicbitch · 27/06/2025 11:57

For what it’s worth, there was a month between losing our old girl and my new boy. Zero regrets, he’s my absolute best friend, I would be lost without him. I still get the odd twang of guilt, but I just absolutely could not live in a house without a dog. It didn’t feel right.

i will just say one thing - my girl was also reactive. She knew what she liked and she liked what she knew. Don’t make the same mistake that we did with our boy, and over socialise him. He’s gotten better with age, but we had a period of time when he thought every dog and human in the world was his biggest fan, of course they didn’t want him to just walk by without greeting them.
apparently 1 in 3 is a good rule to go by when it comes to social greetings.
he’s better now…but still an attention seeking arse 🤣 if someone makes eye contact with him for 0.5 seconds he’s anchoring himself to the ground in the hopes they come over 🙄

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