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Talk some sense into me

42 replies

Kaffiene · 28/04/2025 23:16

Remind me all the bad things about having a dog….
I always had dogs growing up and my adult life until 3 years ago. Relationships broke up, moved into temp housing with my kids and my ex rehomed my dog before I could sort anything. To be honest it was a bit of a relief not to have the additional responsibilities but 3 years on, we are more settled and the kids are a bit more independent and really miss having a dog.
we have a rescue cat we have had for over a year.
my oldest child has visual impairment and we are eligible for a buddy dog from guide dogs. A buddy dog is a dog who failed guide dog training but still a well trained family pet. Guide dogs still own the dog but we would have to cover routine expenses. Guide dogs would pay for any non routine expenses and match us with a dog suited to our family.
I swore I would never get a puppy again, but this seems to tick all the positives and reducing the negatives….
i am a single parent, I work part time mainly from home, all my years of dog ownership mean I still take myself out for a walk rain or shine. There is usually someone home.
Urgh apart from the hair remind me why this could be a bad idea.

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EdithStourton · 29/04/2025 16:39

Oh, dogs, terrible things.
You have to remember to have water down.
They make sure you don't miss going out on wet and windy mornings.
Sometimes they get wet and then lean on you.
You have to pick up their shit.
They can be a bit of a tie.

Um...
<scrapes barrel>
You have to remember to feed them.

Can't imagine not having dogs, plural...

PieonaBarm · 29/04/2025 16:41

I’m going “looking” at puppies this weekend after nearly 3 years without a DDog. So I can’t be any help. At least you’re avoiding the puppytwat months!! Do it!

AllrightNowBaby · 29/04/2025 16:45

Total dog lover here and I was ready to advise you against a dog….but looking at it purely from the dogs welfare, it looks fine.
And as you know, dogs bring such joy that it’s worth the hair problem.
Good luck with your next interview 😊

paranoiaofpufflings · 29/04/2025 16:53

It sounds like an ideal arrangement to be honest. With your son’s visual impairment - even though the dog has failed training - with the right training at home the dog can still be of real benefit to your son and will certainly give him a confidence boost.
You are at home and active outdoors. Kids seem like they are of an age to both help out with the dog’s care and also appreciate the dog.
As a family you’ve gone through some previous trauma. This dog could be exactly what you don’t realise you need to gel the family together.

Only negative could be your cat. As a rescue, you won’t know its full history. Are you certain the cat will be comfortable with a dog around?

Aside from that - what are you thinking the negatives might be? Everyone who has answered here thinks it’s a great idea, but as you’ve written the post you might have something niggling in your mind?

eggandonion · 29/04/2025 16:56

Do buddy dogs have assistance dog jackets?
Guide dogs would be trained not to react to cats, but you might have to have a conversation with your cat!

Coffeeishot · 29/04/2025 17:01

My aunt used to be a fosterer for the guide dog puppies she did it for years 2 of her pups were a "fail" so they became buddy dogs to children with visual impairment I see no negatives at all good luck with the process.

Macey9 · 30/04/2025 00:02

Kaffiene · 29/04/2025 15:01

Thanks for all the replies! So I don’t think anyone has managed to come up with a negative apart from the hair situation! My friend has a buddy dog who failed because they don’t like being in the car for longer than an hour. You are fully informed and matched with your dog.
We usually take one holiday abroad each year for a week and the rest are in the UK so no problem taking the dog. My older child generally prefers to be at home anyway so older comes abroad.
I have down the first 2 interviews and am booked in for a longer call, will keep you posted!

Do it!!! Sounds like a dream

spiderlight · 30/04/2025 11:21

Our last sponsored guide dog became a buddy dog and we had some absolutely lovely updates on him and the little girl he's now supporting. He's made such a difference to her and her family. Everything crossed for you - you already know the downsides, and that the benefits outweigh them many times over!

Kaffiene · 01/09/2025 22:39

Update: We did it!! (Of course we did) She joined our family at the beginning of July - we are in Scotland so the start of the summer holidays. She is a totally joy, even the cat loves her :-)

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Judashascomeintosomemoney · 01/09/2025 22:54

Oh God, I’m so sorry, she seems to be a Golden Retriever. So, basically, a prick in furry clothing. 🤣. Good luck with the giant floofy dickhead you’ve adopted. They are adorable though 🥰

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 01/09/2025 23:05

Well I don't know how I managed to miss this thread when it was first written, I was reading the replies just down and realised it was several months old then saw your update :)

Congratulations / Well Done !

What is her name ? how old is she ?

btw I only found your thread as it's popped up in ' last hour ' threads.

ExitPursuedByABare · 01/09/2025 23:07

Yay. Knew you would.

spiderlight · 01/09/2025 23:20

She's beautiful!! So glad you listened to reason and went for it 😂

Twiglets1 · 02/09/2025 05:20

Aw how lovely ❤️

BunnyRuddington · 02/09/2025 06:22

She’s beautiful 😍

DancefloorAcrobatics · 02/09/2025 11:16

@Kaffiene looks like a match made in heaven!
Enjoy many years of mud, hair everywhere and doggy cuddles!

FiveShelties · 02/09/2025 11:32

Congratulations, she is lovely.😁

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