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My dog attacked the neighbours cat

133 replies

SappyStaffyMum · 28/02/2025 21:50

Hi! I'm a bit stuck here and wondering if someone could or advise if this is actually legal!

My dog attacked the neighbours cat, they rushed it to the vet and thankfully it was ok just had an injection, metacam and a few days on house rest..

Obviously I paid the bill as I felt awful! But today the police came as she has reported my dog as dangerous and the police said they had to attend because she said it's an xl bully (he's a staffy lab cross) and she needs the crime reference for the insurance claim?

If I've paid her for the vets bill can she still do an insurance claim?

I'm a bit upset about it as I'm 17 weeks pregnant and obviously I could do with the money rather than her profiting from this horrible situation especially after attempting to get my dog seized and destroyed… and now sending me abusive texts about how he’s had the taste of blood and will attack my baby…

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StarDolphins · 28/02/2025 23:35

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:30

I'm not the one that needs to get a grip.

Anyone that lets an aggressive dog anywhere near a baby is an idiot.

You can laugh all you want, but dogs do attack people. I don't suppose any of the owners think that it will happen with their dogs.

I'm no dog hater, but an aggressive dog that has already attacked? No way would I be letting a dog like that near a child.

Aggressive dog?!🤣 he’s chased a cat in his garden. Dogs chase cats…cats chase mice…

This doesn’t (unless you’re neurotic) mean that the dog will eat the baby🤣

Only on Mumsnet!

Staggeredatthisadmission · 28/02/2025 23:35

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:21

You're an idiot if you let that dog anywhere near your baby. I hope that, for your child's sake, you will see sense.

Says someone who is utterly clueless about prey drive!!!

SirChenjins · 28/02/2025 23:36

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:34

Common or not, I wouldn't have a dog near a baby that had attacked and injured a cat.

Would you let a cat that had killed another animal near a baby?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:37

StarDolphins · 28/02/2025 23:35

Aggressive dog?!🤣 he’s chased a cat in his garden. Dogs chase cats…cats chase mice…

This doesn’t (unless you’re neurotic) mean that the dog will eat the baby🤣

Only on Mumsnet!

He didn't just chase the cat, he attacked it. See the title of the thread. The dog is aggressive.

I guess some people are willing to take the risk.

FindusMakesPancakes · 28/02/2025 23:37

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:34

Common or not, I wouldn't have a dog near a baby that had attacked and injured a cat.

When did the baby attack and injure a cat?
That's terrible. The baby should be rehomed immediately for the safety of the dog.

StarDolphins · 28/02/2025 23:38

FindusMakesPancakes · 28/02/2025 23:37

When did the baby attack and injure a cat?
That's terrible. The baby should be rehomed immediately for the safety of the dog.

Edited

🤣 damn it, I missed this!

Staggeredatthisadmission · 28/02/2025 23:43

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:33

@StarDolphins, the sarcastic laughing emojis that you're putting on my posts are pretty inappropriate in a week when yet another young person has been killed by an aggressive dog.

It isn't funny.

I think the clue is in the word ‘person’ This wasn’t a person, it was a cat. A cat that happened to be be on the dog’s own territory.

Such hysteria!

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:46

SirChenjins · 28/02/2025 23:36

Would you let a cat that had killed another animal near a baby?

I'm not aware of stories of cats attacking Ms killing humans regularly popping up in the news, but I guess it may happen sometimes. Personally, I wouldn't have wanted a cat around my baby in any case.

Staggeredatthisadmission · 28/02/2025 23:47

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:34

Common or not, I wouldn't have a dog near a baby that had attacked and injured a cat.

Omg! This is horrific! I hope this baby has been reported to the police. Why was this baby not wearing a muzzle. I hope the cat makes a full recovery and the mother of this baby has the book thrown at her. Seriously poor parenting 😡😡

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:49

Oh you're all hilarious.

Because dogs never attack people, do they?

SecondStarOnTheRight · 28/02/2025 23:50

FindusMakesPancakes · 28/02/2025 23:19

She gave cash to the cat owner, not the vet. There is nothing to say it was to pay a bill. Or any evidence that OP ever gave it to her, unless she got a receipt, which seems unlikely. The vet has to complete a pet insurance claim.

It wouldn't matter, if OP can prove money was given it would be too much of a coincidence.

Even if OP paid vets directly, invoices submitted to the insurance company would likely only state that the bill is paid and not state who paid it.

Gingerkittykat · 28/02/2025 23:52

SappyStaffyMum · 28/02/2025 23:14

I really didn’t want this to go down the route it’s going, of course I will never leave him alone with a newborn or child but he’s never shown any aggression towards humans or other animals ever.

i was just genuinely enquiring if she can legally accept payment off me and still claim from her or my insurance too? Do you think a vets would tell me if I actually asked the details of another persons bill?

its been very stressful and I’ve taken advice to block her straight away…

I think it is legal to accept the money from you and put in an insurance claim.

No the vet won't give you any details about her.

How much was the vet bill? From what you say (examination and Metacalm) the bill shouldn't t be much over £100 and most insurance policies have excesses of £200+ before they pay out.

SirChenjins · 28/02/2025 23:53

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:46

I'm not aware of stories of cats attacking Ms killing humans regularly popping up in the news, but I guess it may happen sometimes. Personally, I wouldn't have wanted a cat around my baby in any case.

This dog didn’t attack a person either.

So let’s break this down. A dog attacked a cat that came onto its garden, as dogs often do. Other dogs - but not this one - have killed humans. Therefore the OP’s dog should be rehomed.

Cats attack and kill animals in great numbers every year. It’s in their nature. However, because they are cats and not dogs that have nothing to do with the OP’s dog, they are fine with babies.

Do you see how nonsensical your posts are?

Staggeredatthisadmission · 28/02/2025 23:54

The vet will not discuss any aspect of another person’s pet or account with you due to GDPR @SappyStaffyMum

HeyDoodie · 28/02/2025 23:55

It’s positive the police know, if your dog attacks another animal/person then at least they have historic behaviour on file, enabling educated decisions

StarDolphins · 28/02/2025 23:55

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:46

I'm not aware of stories of cats attacking Ms killing humans regularly popping up in the news, but I guess it may happen sometimes. Personally, I wouldn't have wanted a cat around my baby in any case.

So you’re not aware of any cats savaging humans but you wouldn’t have one….just in case it did? Excellent👏😆

StarDolphins · 28/02/2025 23:59

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 23:49

Oh you're all hilarious.

Because dogs never attack people, do they?

Yes they do. But this is about a dog chasing a cat that was in his garden. You’re coming across as hysterical. You’re changing the whole direction due to your own anxiety.

Dogs attacking people is nothing to do with this thread.

Staggeredatthisadmission · 28/02/2025 23:59

Jaw dropping crazy attitudes on here about the dog. I just know that some of you, upon realising your DC had caught a cold from school, insisted on a deep clean then withdrew said child to home educate

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 01/03/2025 00:03

SirChenjins · 28/02/2025 23:53

This dog didn’t attack a person either.

So let’s break this down. A dog attacked a cat that came onto its garden, as dogs often do. Other dogs - but not this one - have killed humans. Therefore the OP’s dog should be rehomed.

Cats attack and kill animals in great numbers every year. It’s in their nature. However, because they are cats and not dogs that have nothing to do with the OP’s dog, they are fine with babies.

Do you see how nonsensical your posts are?

Do you really think the dogs that do go on to attack humans show no signs of aggression before that?

Anyway, I can see that I'm in the minority here, so fair enough - I won't continue to argue the case as you're all convinced of your rightness. I still think anyone who allows an aggressive dog near their young child is an idiot though.

Staggeredatthisadmission · 01/03/2025 00:07

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 01/03/2025 00:03

Do you really think the dogs that do go on to attack humans show no signs of aggression before that?

Anyway, I can see that I'm in the minority here, so fair enough - I won't continue to argue the case as you're all convinced of your rightness. I still think anyone who allows an aggressive dog near their young child is an idiot though.

I reckon as high as 85% of dogs would chase and attack cats. Do you think that 85% of dogs should not be around babies?

FindusMakesPancakes · 01/03/2025 00:09

SecondStarOnTheRight · 28/02/2025 23:50

It wouldn't matter, if OP can prove money was given it would be too much of a coincidence.

Even if OP paid vets directly, invoices submitted to the insurance company would likely only state that the bill is paid and not state who paid it.

If a vet completed the insurance claim for the owner to be reimbursed for a bill that someone else has paid, the vet would be the person committing fraud.

Cash being handed between neighbours is completely unprovable as having anything to do with paying a bill. No one is going to be even remotely interested in trying to show it wasn't a coincidence.

StarDolphins · 01/03/2025 00:12

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 01/03/2025 00:03

Do you really think the dogs that do go on to attack humans show no signs of aggression before that?

Anyway, I can see that I'm in the minority here, so fair enough - I won't continue to argue the case as you're all convinced of your rightness. I still think anyone who allows an aggressive dog near their young child is an idiot though.

So by your reckoning, a cat that chases a mouse will also kill a child?

CorsicaDreaming · 01/03/2025 00:15

SappyStaffyMum · 28/02/2025 23:14

I really didn’t want this to go down the route it’s going, of course I will never leave him alone with a newborn or child but he’s never shown any aggression towards humans or other animals ever.

i was just genuinely enquiring if she can legally accept payment off me and still claim from her or my insurance too? Do you think a vets would tell me if I actually asked the details of another persons bill?

its been very stressful and I’ve taken advice to block her straight away…

If you tell your insurance you've already paid and settled her vet bill I can't see them agreeing to pay it again. It sounds really stressful @SappyStaffyMum

Shimmyshimmycocobop · 01/03/2025 00:17

My dog would chase a cat that came into our garden despite living happily with our cat. He has a high prey drive and goes mad for squirrels but any animal invited indoors seems to be deemed OK by him.

FindusMakesPancakes · 01/03/2025 00:22

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 01/03/2025 00:03

Do you really think the dogs that do go on to attack humans show no signs of aggression before that?

Anyway, I can see that I'm in the minority here, so fair enough - I won't continue to argue the case as you're all convinced of your rightness. I still think anyone who allows an aggressive dog near their young child is an idiot though.

Dogs will frequently chase smaller prey animals and defend against intruders. Whilst also being incredibly loyal, soppy and gentle with their owners and families.
You are correct that caution is warranted when dogs and children share a house but cat chasing is not an automatic precursor to attacks on humans. Nor is a dog chasing a cat actually a sign of aggression.