Hi all, I split with my ex partner 7 months ago and have shared custody of our one dog, she is 6 years old. I have her majority of the week and he maybe takes her a night or two every week.
My issue is 5+ times now she has been returned to me with an upset stomach, vomiting etc. She also went missing in his care for 3 hours at the beginning of our separation. I have also been told by mutual friends he leaves her alone for long periods when he goes out etc.
There are no set days he takes her, he works away a fair bit so can be gone up to 2 weeks at a time. Its of no concern to me what he does with his free time but he tends to message me last minute when he can/cant take her and I have to arrange alternative care or ask a family member to take her.
He is not responsible enough to care for her alone, when we lived together I fed/walked her 99% of the time and I worry sick everytime he takes her :(
She is microchipped to me but he has paid her care the last 5 years (split food and insurance etc)
Legally can I stop him seeing her? I feel guilty (not a bad breakup) but I am concerned something will happen to her in his care. We have no children so she is like a child to me...