Hey Girl,
I used to post here, now lurk daily. I simultaniosly noticed you'd gone quiet and I think I've noticed the reason for it. So this is to you. I hope you know who you are.
I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your boy and the pain it caused you. Your post to OP was real, valid, thoroughly empathetic and touched the humanity in us all. (Certainly me). I am so, so deeply sorry for the response you revieved from some random 'heartless' poster. The response you got was the most vile, cold hearted, deeply unsympathetic thing I have ever seen on MN (and I've seen a few). I've created a temporary account because I felt compelled to tell you it is not you, it is them. Deep down you know it too. Your response to them, sticking up for the side of right knew it, and I know it too. I believe other Sillenteers will too. I'm here to say do not let the b@${@rds get you down. Be you. You have a beautiful heart. As far as you can without fear. Listen, life tramples the sensitive, beautifully, observant, souls. (Ask me how I know). The ones who quietly withdraw and blame themselves. They're often the most beautiful souls in existence. I'm not good at much. But I am a good judge of character. And I say, please. I implore you. Do not let the pure unwarranted nastiness you experienced get you down. You're beautiful. Worth a billion of em. And so much more. You're great. Keep on girl x