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My beautiful girl has gone

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HermioneRuby1 · 18/11/2024 11:47

My 5 year old cocker spaniel had an upset tummy which began 2 week ago which we put done to a change of food. When it didn't settle went to the vet Weds and she was given anti-sickness injection and some mineral paste to keep all the goodness in her but she'd not lost weight and was not dehydrated nor had a temperature. We paid for a test done on her poos and had to take away a sample pot to bring back after the weekend.
The sickness stopped but despite the bland chicken and rice diet the diarrhoea didn't and she was noticeably drinking more so having accidents in the house.
Saturday morning she brought back all of her morning feed and was very wobbly on her feet and was bumping into things. Took her straight to the emergency vet who checked all the vitals again, took the stool sample and said they'd send it away for testing but in the meantime give her another anti-sickness injection and antacid meds as well as treatment for Gardia as he said that's a parasite which can stay alive despite normal routine worming and won't harm her if we do the treatment as a precautionary but can get nasty of not treated.
All her vitals were checked again and all ok and he said the wobbles and unsteadiness were due to her glucose levels probably dropping with the sickness and diarrhoea and once we get some food in her she will hopefully improve.
We got home and took her out of the car gave her a little of the meds and she then started to walk around very oddly, trying to almost walk up walls, banging into things, looking like she couldn't see anything. She eventually settled in her bed and was dozing so I made her some food.
I went into her to get her to eat and she was unresponsive, trembling but completely stiff.
We picked up her crate and drove back to the emergency vet with her terrified.
They took her straight off us and said she was having seizures and gave her meds and kept her in. They tried muscle relaxers to stop the seizures and said this is likely to be neurological so had a specialist send her meds to help what they thought could be a swelling on the brain. We got a call later that night to say there's no change and essentially her brain had gone. We then had to have her PTS.
Within 24hrs she was gone.
I am absolutely devastated and I can't make sense of it at all. She was my sweet beautiful girl and I am struggling to stop being sad and can't stop crying.
I miss her so much it hurts, I am WFH and she is usually by my side all the time, the house is not right without her. Kids and DH also very sad but seem to be able to handle a bit better but I am in bits. I thought other like minded people here would understand and it might help to get it out.
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Sunflowers098 · 18/11/2024 12:11

I'm so so sorry for your loss. This exact same thing happened with my beautiful girl two years ago. Wobbles and seizures over a week or so. Glucose levels on the floor. They told me it was liver or pancreas and nothing to be done. She was put to sleep in my arms. She was just 8.
It's so so hard to lose them, especially so young and when it's unexpected.
Be kind to yourself, cry and grieve and give yourself time and eventually the memories will become happy ones.
Thinking of you and your family.
Run free over Rainbow Bridge lovely girl - maybe you're playing with my Meg in the sunshine

GenerousGardener · 18/11/2024 12:11

I’m so sorry OP. To lose your girl so quickly and unexpectedly is so hard to come to terms with. Just be kind to yourself and go through the grieving process and cry when you need to (it’s a great relief). Your beautiful girl was obviously more sick than any of you realised (vets included), you and they did everything they could. The few years that you had with her were a joy to you and her. Time will help to heal. Sending you a huge hug. My girl was pts a month ago, I’m still coming to terms with it. I understand you completely.

lovemycbf · 18/11/2024 13:17

I'm so sorry you've lost your dog we lost ours last December and the grief was overwhelming for me in particular I just couldn't stop crying.
Be kind to yourself and let yourself cry and grieve her loss
I took comfort in getting a Photo Book made of my favourite pictures of my little love ❤️
I had a special frame made to put her photo and collar in
We all deal with death of our beloved pets differently
Mines first anniversary is coming up next month and I'm dreading it tbh but will have to remember the 13 years we had together ❤️

Potentialmadcatlady · 18/11/2024 13:19

I’m so sorry.. it’s so hard esp when they so young.. be very kind and gentle with yourselves

Littlemissgobby · 18/11/2024 13:21

HermioneRuby1 · 18/11/2024 11:47

My 5 year old cocker spaniel had an upset tummy which began 2 week ago which we put done to a change of food. When it didn't settle went to the vet Weds and she was given anti-sickness injection and some mineral paste to keep all the goodness in her but she'd not lost weight and was not dehydrated nor had a temperature. We paid for a test done on her poos and had to take away a sample pot to bring back after the weekend.
The sickness stopped but despite the bland chicken and rice diet the diarrhoea didn't and she was noticeably drinking more so having accidents in the house.
Saturday morning she brought back all of her morning feed and was very wobbly on her feet and was bumping into things. Took her straight to the emergency vet who checked all the vitals again, took the stool sample and said they'd send it away for testing but in the meantime give her another anti-sickness injection and antacid meds as well as treatment for Gardia as he said that's a parasite which can stay alive despite normal routine worming and won't harm her if we do the treatment as a precautionary but can get nasty of not treated.
All her vitals were checked again and all ok and he said the wobbles and unsteadiness were due to her glucose levels probably dropping with the sickness and diarrhoea and once we get some food in her she will hopefully improve.
We got home and took her out of the car gave her a little of the meds and she then started to walk around very oddly, trying to almost walk up walls, banging into things, looking like she couldn't see anything. She eventually settled in her bed and was dozing so I made her some food.
I went into her to get her to eat and she was unresponsive, trembling but completely stiff.
We picked up her crate and drove back to the emergency vet with her terrified.
They took her straight off us and said she was having seizures and gave her meds and kept her in. They tried muscle relaxers to stop the seizures and said this is likely to be neurological so had a specialist send her meds to help what they thought could be a swelling on the brain. We got a call later that night to say there's no change and essentially her brain had gone. We then had to have her PTS.
Within 24hrs she was gone.
I am absolutely devastated and I can't make sense of it at all. She was my sweet beautiful girl and I am struggling to stop being sad and can't stop crying.
I miss her so much it hurts, I am WFH and she is usually by my side all the time, the house is not right without her. Kids and DH also very sad but seem to be able to handle a bit better but I am in bits. I thought other like minded people here would understand and it might help to get it out.
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I am so sorry to hear this 2. Weeks ago I had to put my own dog down, Dalton was 15, apparently had old dog vestibular syndrome, very similar in the way that he was wobbly and dizzy and had his head to one side he literally was like he was on a waltzer, and they said it was. Neurological, but he couldn't stand he was just not able to walk properly. It was doing his head in, it was obviously to stressed. It was horrible to see, obviously a bit different because yours was only five and I knew mine was getting to an age at fifteen, but it's still very sad nonetheless

GuppytheCat · 18/11/2024 13:22

I'm so sorry! We lost ours unexpectedly last year (went in for an op, got peritonitis) and the shock was immense. I have lost and grieved for cats before now, but somehow the loss of a dog is more overwhelming as they permeate our whole lives.

PyreneanAubrie · 18/11/2024 13:24

I am so sorry about the loss of your lovely girl @HermioneRuby1

You did everything you could for your girl. I'm sure she knew how much she was loved and that's what you have to tell yourself now.

My heart really goes out to you. Sudden loss of a dog in their prime is horribly traumatic; it happened to us three years ago. Our boy also had to be PTS at the emergency vets 😢The grief with this type of loss is immense and you'll cry a lot in the coming days, it takes a long time to adjust to them being gone.

Be gentle with yourself.

💐

HermioneRuby1 · 18/11/2024 13:43

Thank you all so much for all your kind words, I needed to hear all of them and it's given me some comfort which is what I was seeking posting on here.
My best friends have kindly sent me some flowers and a card too which was a lovely, they know how much she meant to me.
I keep thinking it all over trying to determine why it happened but we will never know the real root cause without an autopsy and I don't want that for her. I think once I have fully processed that I will be able to remember her without crying over the loss of her.
Thanks so much x

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RM2013 · 18/11/2024 17:30

I am so so sorry for your loss. Any loss of a beloved family member is heartbreaking but so quickly and at a young age is even harder for you all. She was very clearly loved and would have known that. Sending love ❤️

PinedApple · 18/11/2024 18:26

So sorry for your loss do take care and allow yourself to cry and grieve. Lean on your family ♥️ ultimately we don’t always know why these things happen, it just can sometimes. You loved and cared for her so well there’s nothing more you could have done.

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