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Sorry it's long . My shihtzu has been attacked by staff X type I'm injured too it was completely unprovoked and sudden need tips to build confidence

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Katej82 · 28/08/2024 01:18

Hi I can't really believe I'm posting this. A week ago I crossed the road both my dog and the other dog was on a lead the other dog was sat by very still I was waiting for her to cross so I could get through to carry on ahead, we were a good distance away from one another. My dog is very chill well trained I went to classes early on he's now nearly 8 years old. Her dog was on a collar and lead only she's a frail looking woman too. Anyway the dog just suddenly pounced no warning as such no tail ears just silent, looking back I now think the stare to my dog was the sign. As her dog pounched I was thrown over the lead into the main road while her dog was mauling my little dog all I could think in that moment was we were both done for and my beautiful dog in the most traumatic painful way. Lucky my dog had a wrap thunder coat on I'd got for bonfire night etc he hates fireworks and separation anxiety it's a great rain coat, believe it saved him he's vet checked and fine but as the coat was slippy no grip. Anyway I got bit trying to grab my dog I managed to get up but fell again over her lead again I was tangled in in somehow I managed to get up grab my dog and run like I've never run before lost my shoe trying to kick too. There was a witness but I only know her from dog walking I don't know her name reached out on a local group and it's turned out the dog has attacked before there is a possibility of CCTV she has denied it and said they were sniffing and I tripped I'm so angry all I expected was a strong head lead and muzzle on her dog but she's not cooperative with police so it's a court job. I'm now petrified to go out alone this happened suddenly no warning etc. I've bought a K9 spray a huge umbrella and yellow lead but there's so many idiots who can't control their dogs. I have a toddler she normally walks with me thank god she was at nursery. I'm black and blue from the fall and the incident has caused me nightmares after finally falling asleep sometimes I can't sleep. I've gone from being a very confident dog walker to a nervous wreck which I'm really trying to control for my dog but struggling, just the other day I saw a man with a similar bull breed with it off lead running behind me since that I can't go out alone because I've been forcing myself until then I even crossed over they then crossed I crossed again I look nuts. I've never been afraid of dogs I will be honest and say I avoid bully types in general because my sister has always had staffs and bullies they are not always good with other dogs they don't know, my sister has had dogs living together and they are generally ok with people. But I don't go into their path I just know certain breeds are not great with dogs no offence.. I'm just feeling very vulnerable aside from my giant umbrella etc I am unsure how I can build my confidence and feel able to protect my dog my child and myself. I love walking my dog this is literally ruining my life we walk about 2-3 miles per day normally it's my passion I live near a lot of hills and love the views it's the town idiots that spoil it. Sorry it's long but I'm so traumatised. Any tips and tricks or ways to feel confident would be appreciated so scared for my children too. Thanks

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Elizo · 28/08/2024 09:54

You poor thing. This is awful, I think it will take a lot of time to rebuild your confidence, you need to go slowly. Have you told the police? Can you go to quieter places for your walks? I think tipping water on an attacking dog is also good? So glad you are both ok (just about)

Katej82 · 28/08/2024 12:11

Elizo · 28/08/2024 09:54

You poor thing. This is awful, I think it will take a lot of time to rebuild your confidence, you need to go slowly. Have you told the police? Can you go to quieter places for your walks? I think tipping water on an attacking dog is also good? So glad you are both ok (just about)

Thank you x I have heard that I may also have to carry water I do normally have a bottle probably needs to be a squeeze lid I guess. I'm so fearful of other especially big dogs now can't go near the staff or bull types now if I see one I ust have a panic attack, never have been afraid of dogs before and I know they sense it so I feel I'm placing us at more risk. Cannot believe how it's affecting me which is affecting my little dog. I may try quieter places but at the same time feeling isolated isn't great I am having to walk with someone most of the time now. Also the amount of incidents I have heard about since the man that died in his own home lived only 3 miles from us so I know that breed XL bully are in the area. I've seen two before with kids walking them! I guess it was so sudden and I don't feel I can keep us safe. Yes police are taking it seriously she's currently denying it saying I tripped over her lead when they sniffed each other! This woman has grandchildren all I want is for her to have a stronger head lead and muzzle now it'll have to go to court x

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IrishCoffeeEvening · 28/08/2024 21:40

I'm so sorry this happened to you and your dog.
I'll tell you how it reads to me.
It sounds to me like you protected your dog despite being hurt and traumatised yourself. You reached in to a situation to save your dog that every instinct would tell you not to (a vicious dog biting). You were hurt, shocked, scared but you stepped up. You saved your dog. It feels to you like the world is a scarier place, like you need someone with you. I tell you what, if I needed someone with me, its someone exactly like you I would want with me. Someone who feels afraid but steps up anyway. Someone who can be counted on when the chips are down to step up and step in to protect the ones you love. Someone who from your dog's perspective is the world's biggest hero. Who swooped in and picked dog up and ran the hell out of there on one shoe. You are amazing. You did amazing. You are competent and capable.
I'm sorry the world can be a rubbish place. But people like you make it better. I admire you, for what it's worth, and I hope you can feel proud of what you did.
Courage isn't the absence of fear. Its being scared as hell and saddling up anyway. You're courageous and imo have some of the very best traits of humanity.
I really hope you start to feel better soon.

I witnessed a violent assault years ago where man approached woman from behind. For weeks after that I got panic attacks whenever a man was behind me. But it did pass. I'm not sure what to suggest to help with that but do whatever you think may help and prioritise that. Time will likely help too. You'll always remember it but it won't always be at front of your mind. I hope you get any help and support you need to feel better. Very best wishes x

IrishCoffeeEvening · 28/08/2024 21:42

And I'm so glad your dog's OK, thanks to you and the thunder vest.

Katej82 · 29/08/2024 01:03

IrishCoffeeEvening · 28/08/2024 21:40

I'm so sorry this happened to you and your dog.
I'll tell you how it reads to me.
It sounds to me like you protected your dog despite being hurt and traumatised yourself. You reached in to a situation to save your dog that every instinct would tell you not to (a vicious dog biting). You were hurt, shocked, scared but you stepped up. You saved your dog. It feels to you like the world is a scarier place, like you need someone with you. I tell you what, if I needed someone with me, its someone exactly like you I would want with me. Someone who feels afraid but steps up anyway. Someone who can be counted on when the chips are down to step up and step in to protect the ones you love. Someone who from your dog's perspective is the world's biggest hero. Who swooped in and picked dog up and ran the hell out of there on one shoe. You are amazing. You did amazing. You are competent and capable.
I'm sorry the world can be a rubbish place. But people like you make it better. I admire you, for what it's worth, and I hope you can feel proud of what you did.
Courage isn't the absence of fear. Its being scared as hell and saddling up anyway. You're courageous and imo have some of the very best traits of humanity.
I really hope you start to feel better soon.

I witnessed a violent assault years ago where man approached woman from behind. For weeks after that I got panic attacks whenever a man was behind me. But it did pass. I'm not sure what to suggest to help with that but do whatever you think may help and prioritise that. Time will likely help too. You'll always remember it but it won't always be at front of your mind. I hope you get any help and support you need to feel better. Very best wishes x

How very kind of you I think I was a bit of a wimp to be fair it was so sudden I guess in a way the lead got more in the way but also I don't think I've ever cried as much afterwards. Thank you so much your words brought me to tears. It's so stupid to be scared really I know that because in the 7.5 amazing years of my boys life this is the only real incident. Thank you for giving me hope it will get better and the incident you witnessed sounds terrible. I guess I crack on with my giant umbrella big boots correction spray and the mindset aunt no one messing with me or getting near my dog or toddler. ! I think the idiots knocking around don't help uncontrolled off lead dogs, if the dog doesn't recall don't have it off lead I'm struggling with it because this was bad enough with her dog on a lead christ it would have been worse if hers was off lead just wish someone could have helped pulling her dogs back legs etc. But I now need to woman up big time xx again big thanks x

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Fedup92 · 29/08/2024 01:36

Call the police. Her dog needs putting down.

I hope your dog is ok.

Katej82 · 29/08/2024 08:23

Fedup92 · 29/08/2024 01:36

Call the police. Her dog needs putting down.

I hope your dog is ok.

Police are involved but she's denying it saying they were sniffing one another and I fell over her lead only. There's a witness I'm trying to trace. But it has transpired that this is not the first incident with her dog it's attacked before but it's the first one reported. The law isn't good enough to protect people and pets from other stupid owners. I'm just hoping the CCTV from a nearby garage is available. I have asked they retain footage from that day then the police can get it. You only have 30 days to obtain it. X

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Elizo · 29/08/2024 08:34

Just take your time. You just have to go step by step. Make it easier for now going with someone etc. I agree about if you can’t control your dog they shouldn’t be off lead - if only everyone stuck to it. You’re ok and your dog is ok, you will feel better in time.

ejsmith99 · 02/09/2024 20:08

I'm so sorry you and your dog have had to go through this. If you are on local Facebook groups explain what has happened and ask if there are any friendly dogs that you and your dog can walk with to build up your confidence. My dogs frequently play that role and having another person means they can be another pair of ears and eyes.

abracadabra1980 · 02/09/2024 21:34

I'm so incredibly sorry that this is happened to you and your beloved pet. Take some time at home to let your little dog decompress and don't stress about missing a few walks. Try some brain training games at home, hide his food (I do this every morning as it gets them using their brains and sniffing, buy some beef or marrowbones from the butcher, groom, just spend time together healing.
The suggestion from PP about Facebook is a good idea. A walking buddy will help you be more confident. I would also avoid areas (if you can) where this dog is walked. Hope you both heal quickly. X

Purpleandredandyellow · 02/09/2024 21:36

You could try pepper spray or similar in addition to the umbrella? Works very well on dogs they immediately run away

ineedtogwtoutbeforeitatoohot · 02/09/2024 21:50

This sort of thing is very rare but it's obviously traumatic. Get back out there. Can you walk on the hills rather than the towns. If you have to go to the towns then just make sure you don't pass any dogs. Cross over the road that should solve it.

Katej82 · 04/09/2024 00:34

Purpleandredandyellow · 02/09/2024 21:36

You could try pepper spray or similar in addition to the umbrella? Works very well on dogs they immediately run away

Thank you is this the K9 spray ?

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Katej82 · 04/09/2024 21:42

Thank you all. I'm still really struggling my beautiful boy is his old self but sulking for his 3 mile walks but I can't cope at present. I've noticed so many idiots who just let their dogs run at us even with a yellow lead 'oh don't worry my dogs friendly.' I can't trust them it was bad enough dogs on a lead. I am suffering from panic attacks now I honestly have no idea how to get my life back because walking him is my leisure my freedom:I love my dog he's my other baby I just want him to never hurt and have fun but I'm really struggling. I guess I know that dog could have dragged her across the rd. t's hard as I wanted to pass the way she was going I was a good few metres away probably 5-7 metres it's really shook me and I've never been afraid of anything in my life I am now. Had an experience the other day where some fool with an off lead bull breed was walking behind us I crossed the road he followed I crossed again it's so strange never seen so many big uncontrolled dogs it's as though our town has had an invasion of bad dog owners. I then had a full on panic attack I went in someone's garden this is not me at all I'm normally headstrong and confident. I wouldn't mind but this is a rural area normally a very quiet place everyone knows everyone I talk to everyone on the walks down the town and then up to the hills it's the only social I had too I've walked here for 5 years had no problems until recently, I know I may notice more but most dogs here are like labs and small bread it seems so odd . Now I'm driving places and still completely in a panic. The GP has given me tablets it's not helping. I'm thinking about some serious self defense classes not sure it will help but may build my confidence again. Thanks again everyone x

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