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Moving from a big house to a small rented flat - worried about dog well being

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GoingDownLikeBHS · 16/08/2024 20:59

Due to divorce I'm moving from a big 3 bed semi with garden to a rented flat with myself, DD21 and DDog. Got keys today and it's much smaller than I remember and was stiflingly hot. There's no garden but quite a bit of grass around so planning to take him out say 4 times a day or more to offer at least a wee, with one substantial walk in the woods in the early evening. But I just feel he will be so miserable. 8 year old cockerpoo; his big airy house with garden, picture window and sofa he lives on has been his entire life.

I think he will miss ex-H, will be hot and bored in the one main room of the flat (kitchen living room combined plus 2 bedrooms) and he can't look out of the window all the time because that's the main reason he barks a lot so we're moving new sofa away from the flat window. He'll be left alone for a few hours at a time some days - say 2/3 hours - and then one day a week he'll need a dog walker.

I started a similar thread recently and I think a couple of people came on and said "he'll be fine" but I am still thinking "how?"

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Iheartmysmart · 16/08/2024 21:08

I was in the same situation a few years ago after separating from my ex. It was surprising how quickly DDog adjusted to his new living environment. I think as long as they are with someone familiar, dogs are very adaptable.

Yes we had to go out a lot more often for walks because I couldn’t just let him out into the garden, but I think that actually improved his quality of life. We did a longish walk first thing, quick toileting break mid morning, a 30 minute walk at lunch, mid afternoon toileting break, another walk just before dinner and a late night toilet trip.

I also had to arrange the furniture so he couldn’t see out the window! And got a fan for when it was hot. We lived quite happily in my little 2-bed place for over four years. Sadly the old fella had to be pts last year.

Onedaynotyet · 16/08/2024 21:10

Autumn is coming, but maybe over winter you might think about getting one of those portable AC units for next summer. We bought one for our old dog 2 years ago and it made a lot of difference. He will be ok because you care about his needs and clearly love him.

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