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I wish I’d trained my dog to…..

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PaddingtonsHat · 10/10/2023 14:50

Tell me what things you wish you had trained your dog to do. Puppy coming after Xmas and besides the obvious sit, lie, stand etc, I’m keen to consider the practically useful.
Im thinking doorbell ringing as a signal for going to their bed, for example.
We will be doing puppy classes but obviously quite restricted until pup can go out.
Thanks

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StBrides · 11/10/2023 11:56

TronaldDump · 10/10/2023 14:56

We taught our dog to 'ask' before jumping on any furniture a human was on (just by sitting quietly our eyelines). It's brilliant. I find it so hard now when people have dogs which jump all over me without hesitating. There's the 'touch' command which is brilliant too - just getting them to come and give their attention, works in so many situations.

How did you teach them to ask?
And what's the touch command?

StBrides · 11/10/2023 11:58

WetBandits · 10/10/2023 15:18

“Drop it!”

We’ve tried to teach that one about a billion times but he just doesn’t get it. He’ll ‘swap’ what he’s got for something he wants even more, but he will never just drop what he’s got. Not the end of the world because there is always something he’ll be willing to trade for, but still annoying! See also not jumping up at me to grab his ball because he’s too excited to wait until I throw it.

Best thing we ever taught him besides the usual recall, sit, wait, down, speak, etc. was the emergency stop. We test it out on walks most days just to keep it fresh in his mind and he skids to a halt each and every time, even mid-gallop!

Please tell me about the emergency stop

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 11/10/2023 12:12

If you live in the country, to stop at a gate or stile, not charge into the next field ahead of you (I don’t let my dogs roam but, even if they’re only a few metres ahead of you, they can potentially be into another field without this). And to stick to the path through a field of crops, so they don’t damage them.

PaddingtonsHat · 11/10/2023 12:20

Some really great tips here, thanks everyone. Now to work out how to train them how to do each thing! Pup will be a cocker so should have the brains to work it out but suspect overriding the nose may be more challenging.

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PaddingtonsHat · 11/10/2023 12:23

CallMeMousie · 11/10/2023 11:38

We just picked up our new puppy and it's been ages since we last trained a puppy! This is all so useful. Any good recommendations for YouTube or Instagram accounts which help on getting some of this good stuff ingrained?

Yes any recommendations would be great- so many different trainers on socials, apps you can use etc that it feels like a minefield.

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Thisismynewusername1 · 11/10/2023 12:35

I trained mine to bark at the door, people passing etc.

he doesn’t do it excessively, and it’s a very useful alert. As soon as we acknowledge it he stops.

the most useful thing we did was teach him the way home safely from a normal walking route- on pavements and to go straight home. He got attacked by another dog recently and that kicked in when we couldn’t get to him quick enough- he just went straight home.

godlys · 11/10/2023 12:44

To get used to having her paws held… nail trimming is an absolute ordeal!!!

twistyizzy · 11/10/2023 12:51

@PaddingtonsHat gundog training is the answer. You have a working breed so need to ensure breed specific training. Cockers are highly trainable but that also means they pick up bad habits as quickly as good.
Get The Pet Gundog book by Lez Graham and book onto a course of gundog training sessions. When I say a course I mean 6 months+, cockers need more than a 6 week basic course.

Rainonaparade · 11/10/2023 12:57

The two things I'm really glad about:

  1. taking the dog for lots of car rides without walks attached. Its helped her be a pro at car travel. She's car neutral now which is the most important thing. She isn't overly excited by the car, and is calm. I'd really recommend just going for drives without destinations

  2. being Lead neutral. Because she was super nervous she spent a lot of time on her lead. This means when she's being a complete ass at home we can pop her on her lead and she immediately calms and is comfortable. It's really easy for leads to equal walks so dogs get super hyped with them which can mean your walk starts off being really hyped, but also its harder to use it for loose lead/ settle in the house or to pop them on it to stop them jumping on visitors

To be honest the most important thing imo is teaching dogs calm, and letting them get bored.

Previously my biggest regret is in over stimulating my older dog constantly when they were a puppy When a dog is super bouncy and running round the house it's tempting to try and occupy them and tire them.

We did this in 2 ways (that were bad). Firstly we walked them alot, this later caused joint issues because they were too little for the amount they were doing (do keep to the 5 min per month thing) but also ment that we had a dog that expected a walk at 7 am each day regardless of being sick, or if you were planning a whole day family walk later in the day. We also constantly used things like kongs and stimulation games so he didn't learn to just be or settle.

In general the more you do with your dog the more it becomes routine. It's really easy to accidentally marathon train your dog. Think of how a human builds stamina and fitness. If you walk 5km each day they will expect it, and it won't tire them so you bump it up to 6km and they get used to that. You shouldn't be relying on activity to exhaust your dog because they will just get accustomed and build a tolerance. You need them to be able to settle even if they aren't physically exhaused

Rainonaparade · 11/10/2023 13:02

Disclaimer to the above: Obviously you need to be meeting your dogs basic needs re stimulation and exercise but beware of when it becomes a bottomless pit

My general example is that it's like a toddler at a wedding, or disco. They get to the point where they look like they are having loads of fun skidding around etc but at one point it becomes really fragile and overwraught. This is when toddlers tend to begin to push into people, hit etc and puppies tend to nip, bark , destroy stuff

It's tempting when a pup (or toddler!) Gets into that manic stage to push on through it, to match their energy and play games and run about with them until they physically crash

Usually what's more effective is to bring the energy down, which might seem ridiculous when your pup is charging about but something like enforced on lead time or time in the crate 90% leads to them crashing and sleeping

Alot of manic behaviour isn't too much energy, it's a dog in need of a nap or that's overwhelmed

Sometimes you have to relish your role as the fun police to keep things calm and orderly

ReadtheReviews · 11/10/2023 13:49

Not to chase cats.

bunnygeek · 11/10/2023 14:01

PaddingtonsHat · 11/10/2023 12:23

Yes any recommendations would be great- so many different trainers on socials, apps you can use etc that it feels like a minefield.

We did Dogs Trust Dog School reactive dog classes with my girl as she's dog reactive which was really helpful. They do lots of regular puppy classes as well as loads of advice online.

Always check any other trainers are certified, a lot aren't (including certain high profile ones with their own TV shows, ahem). There's advice on how to find a good behaviourist or dog trainer here:
https://www.dogstrust.org.uk/dog-advice/understanding-your-dog/finding-behaviour-and-training-support

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Lougle · 11/10/2023 14:41

Any tips for a puppy that likes to eat their own poo? She's like a ninja. I have to have the poo bag ready to go, or she gets there first.

Sweetleftfood · 11/10/2023 16:26

Things we did well:
Recall
Relaxing in public spaces - he is an amazing pub/restaurant/camping dog
Neutral with other dogs, he will greet if he wishes too but won't run up to random dogs

What I wished we had done better
He is scared of small running, screeching children so we should have maybe exposed him to that a bit more. Our kids were 9 and 11 when we got him but can never take him to a football game or as he will bark his head off.

Also very much yes to go in the same space in the garden, wow why didn't we even consider that

fruitstick · 11/10/2023 16:28

Not jumping up to to steal food.
Not jumping on furniture without permission.
Not jumping at guests.

Can you sense the theme?

Once they discover the reward, it's harder to undo.

Wallywobbles · 11/10/2023 16:29

To understand touch, so a light touch is an actual command. I had a dog that went deaf but he was so incredibly in tune with me that I could literally touch him with one finger to get him to do what I wanted.

TronaldDump · 11/10/2023 20:10

StBrides · 11/10/2023 11:56

How did you teach them to ask?
And what's the touch command?

Getting them to ask is super easy. If they jump up just push them off and ask them to sit. Once they are sitting nicely let them up with the 'up' command. Or tell them no if you feel mean!

I'm not 100% on the touch, worth a Google, but it's basically kind of recall but also about focusing their attention onto you. They touch your hand with their nose to show they are listening.

Autumn1990 · 11/10/2023 20:28

Choose the words you use for training carefully. I stood many a time at a motorway service station or similar instructing the family Labrador to have a whiz and a dump (thank you DB for that bit of training)
Make them wait until you say ok. For then to eat their food when you put the bowl down. Then in theory it won’t it’s grab food it shouldn’t.
Dont let them on sofas or beds. Buy them a nice dog bed or if they don’t chew a duvet in a cover. Current family lab is very grumpy about the current lack of duvet. He will get one for winter.
The person I know whose dogs have the best recall and walk well on a lead are free roaming until at least a year old. They choose to walk with you as they’ve had plenty of freedom and it’s not a novelty.

Lottaflowers · 16/10/2023 12:27

We have a working cocker. Some of the most useful things we've trained her on are:

  • Stay - absolute godsend to make her stay put whenever needed (very occasionally she ignores it but mostly does it well). We also use it when crossing roads or going through gates. We never just walk out/through. She has to wait and then go when released.
  • If letting off lead - do a Sit first, remove lead and then ask her to 'watch' , which means to look you in the eyes, before releasing her. It just puts you in a bit more control of the situation and reminds her you are there before she runs off!
  • Leave - e.g. put a treat out and say "Leave". She won't eat it until we say okay. Or if we are walking down the road and see something I know she'll really want, I can get in early with a strong Leave and 9/10 times she will leave it. Doesn't work on really gross smelly food scraps on the pavement 😂
  • Drop - to get her to drop anything she has in her mouth. She's less responsive to this than Leave, so it's preferable if we can stop her picking it up in the first place. But it works 7/10 times and 9/10 if its not a food item.
  • She rings a doggy doorbell to let us know she needs to go in the garden.

As a PP said, hand gestures are also helpful. I can do stay just with my hand if she is looking at me. She does lots of tricks just with hand gestures too but they are not essentials, just for fun.

I'm not a dog whisperer or anything. We learned all of that at a puppy training class.

We also spent time getting her used to as much noise as possible as we live on a main road so I didn't want her to be scared of loud noises. We took her in the garden on her first fireworks night and she wasn't bothered by it at all. We got her used to the bath early on as well. But I do regret not getting her used to having a fur trim from an early age. By the time we needed to give her a trim to remove ear matts at 16 months she was having none of it and I had to book her in with a professional.

katmunchkin · 16/10/2023 12:40

Acclimatisation to fireworks would be top for me

Pheckwittageisms · 17/10/2023 08:03

Cooperative care is so important but often forgotten about - the bucket game by Chirag Patel is amazing for this. Getting groomed or going to the vets can be unnecessarily unfairly stressful otherwise. Have a look at trickspaniel on Instagram - she does cooperative care brilliantly.

We clicker trained putting balls/socks in a washing up bowl. We love a game of tidy up (cocker spaniel thief here). He loves it and it means we can get contraband surrendered without any need to take stuff, which is super handy if you have / or have visiting kids. Also means he chooses to give the item up and knows we won’t take, so doesn’t feel the need to guard. He takes his job as chief loo roll recycler very seriously.

Anything involving sniffing and hunting!

Have a listen to Susan Garretts Shaped by dog podcast too.

Mrsjayy · 17/10/2023 08:07

twistyizzy · 10/10/2023 15:01

The most important things you can teach are:

  • proofed recall in distractions
  • to ignore other dogs + people
  • walk to heel on lead without pulling
  • settle at home

Normal local 6 week puppy classes dont teach any of these things and are actually counterproductive in many cases.

We went to a great puppy class that taught these it's just contant practise 😃

We are still trying to get our pup to chill when people come in /visit this is really important.

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