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Feel like I'm the only one struggling with my dog

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sunriseoversea · 25/03/2023 09:07

He is 8 months old, we've had him from 12 weeks. He is lovely - fab temperament, very gentle and loving. But he has had separation anxiety and some adolescent behaviours are making things challenging e.g finding things to steal and run off with (even if I think I've put everything out of reach), barking while we're eating. I feel like we're in constant management and have gone backwards with training. We're keeping up the training, giving him appropriate exercise + enrichment etc, but it feels hard at the moment. Maybe we've gone wrong somewhere, or maybe this is normal?

So as not to drip feed, I am also unexpectedly pregnant. We did not plan it when we got the puppy, and I definitely did not want a puppy and a baby, but here we are. I am dreading it. He will be 14 months when the baby arrives.

I feel like everyone else has well rounded, well behaved dogs and we're the only ones struggling. Please tell me it gets better? Oh, and that life with a young dog, a baby and a 5 year old isn't hell?!

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ImAGoodPerson · 27/03/2023 13:48

Have you looked at Julie Naismiths page on FB? Really helpful re the separation anxiety.

I have 1 very barky dog, drives me insane. Other dog is really big with awful recall. Honestly I dread going out with both of them. Just getting harnesses on is an ordeal, 1yo big dog has huge zooming at first but then will sit nicely to get harness on and is calm leaving the house. 2yo little dog goes crazy, barking, not keeping still and it makes it so difficult to get out the house. I need around 10 mins to do sufficient training techniques to leave the house but it doesn't actually get through to them.

Small dog barks at everything, tries to chase joggers and bikes. Big dog pulls so any on lead walks are just stopping and starting.

I love them dearly but it really gets me down. Bit of a catch 22 with everything really, lots of lead walks mean all the above improves, or off lead time improves recall. Struggling to crack both.

ImAGoodPerson · 27/03/2023 13:48

Luckily small dogs recall is brilliant, it's literally just taking them both out together that is stressful.

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