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My dog has died

14 replies

Daisy20102010 · 28/01/2023 23:33

On Thurs night my husband arrived home after work at about 10.30pm.to find our 12 year puggle dead. She had eaten the treats I left out for in 3 places as I left for work about 5.15pm, but not her dinner which comes out of an automatic feeder at 6. 30pm.

He found her deceased in our bed on his pillow with her tongue out. She had poohed on the rug before getting into bed. Where she urinated on the bed. He is so traumatised by finding her like that, he keeps revisiting the image of her dead with her tongue out. Trying to shake her awake. I arrived home not long after and we took her to the 24 hour vets. The vet said she died of a blood clot and offered an autopsy, but didn't recommend it. So we decided against it. We are both obviously devastated. I was hoping a kind mumsnetter could explain how she likely died and if she would have suffered.

We did not see any warning signs, she was running around the local playing field on her regular walk just before I left for work. DH does not have so many questions, I guess as I work in healthcare I wanted an explanation. We are both glad it was a quick death and she did not suffer too long. Thank you for reading such a long post.

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Eightiesgirl · 28/01/2023 23:39

I don't have any ideas as to why your poor dog died, but I just wanted to say I am very sorry for your loss. Your husband must be so upset at finding her like that and I hope he can eventually get that awful image out of his head.

AdventFridgeOfShame · 28/01/2023 23:40

Great big hugs, losing a long standing pet is so traumatic. They really do become family members. Allow yourselves to grieve.

Does sound like it was nice and quick without any suffering.

LBF2020 · 28/01/2023 23:41

How sad, I'm so sorry. She sounded like a lovely girl, very loved.
Hopefully someone with knowledge of these things will be along shortly to offer some comfort xx

Puravida23 · 28/01/2023 23:56

So sorry for your loss. I don’t have any medical experience but my dog died suddenly last year. She was fine in the morning and then in the afternoon her breathing changed and I could tell something was wrong .
I called the vet and while I was on the phone she had a seizure. She was still alive when we got her in the car but by the time we got there she had died.
She was almost 11. It literally was no more than 3 hours from her deteriorating to her dying. It is such a shock as you have no time to prepare.
We didn’t have an autopsy so I will never know what happened but I suspect underlying tumour or cancer as common in my dogs breed
i know this is such a painful time but you can take comfort from the fact it was so quick and she died in her safe space

LadyVictoriaSponge · 29/01/2023 00:48

I can’t shed any light I’m afraid but just wanted to say how sorry I am about your dog, you must both be in a state of shock, I imagine the pee would have been after she died as that is what happens after they have been put to sleep so it could be she got on the bed and slipped away peacefully, still such a horrendous shock to find her but she was at home in bed where she felt safe and loved. I really am so very sorry OP it’s utterly devastating when they leave us.

Cannottryasp00 · 29/01/2023 00:56

Am so sorry. As a dog mum I cannot imagine how shocked you are and sad 😞
Great for the dog though.Xx

Daisy20102010 · 29/01/2023 07:20

Thank you everyone, for all you kind words. They do bring comfort. That must have been so traumatic @Puravida23. We are going away tomorrow to celebrate DHs big birthday. I hope he manages to enjoy himself. I think it will be good to be out of the house, as I keep expecting to see her lying on the sunny spot on the sofa and things. I don't think I have really processed it yet. That is good to know @LadyVictoriaSponge. Thank you again to all who posted, makes me feel less alone.

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daisydoods · 29/01/2023 07:22

I don't have any ideas but just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss op

Fiddlesticksand · 29/01/2023 07:27

I am so sorry. It's devastating. My adored pug died 3 months ago. She had a heart condition so we knew she wouldn't live to be old but finding her dead at the bottom of the bed when I woke up was horrific. She had peed and pooed too, it's normal. My lovely DH washed her before taking her to the vet. I loved her so much.

Marsde · 29/01/2023 07:27

I'm afraid I have no medical knowledge so can't help but just wanted to give my condolences, I'm so sorry for your loss.

We lost our pug last year, it was very swift, he went from hopping up and down mountains in Snowdonia to critical in a short period as cancer ravaged his perfect little body.

I know how you must be feeling and it's horrific, just remember how loved your little one was, it's such a tight bond and one that will never be replaced.

Sending love.

Watchingthetiderollaway · 29/01/2023 07:31

I’m so sorry for you, our dogs are family. It sounds to me as if your baby probably passed in her sleep, as she managed to get onto the bed for a lie down and likely would have been totally unaware of what was happening.

chronictonic · 29/01/2023 07:33

I'm so so sorry for your loss x

Campervangirl · 29/01/2023 07:46

I'm so sorry X
It's awful to lose a pet, they're not really pets, they're part of your family and to lose your ddog unexpectedly is horrific.
I can't shed any light on what may have caused it but a blood clot would have been quick
My DM died of a blood clot, stage 4 cancer sufferer, GP said she wouldn't have suffered or been aware, as when she fell (she was found on the floor) it was obvious she hadn't put her hands out to break her fall which is a natural instinct.
Having a wee in your bed will have happened after ddog passed away.
You and your DH need to allow yourself to grieve, it'll get easier to accept in time, be kind to yourselves, you've had a terrible shock❤️

Roselilly36 · 29/01/2023 08:37

Aww so sorry, when we lost our lovely dog at 13, we were just about to go on holiday, I thought we wouldn’t enjoy the holiday at all, I didn’t even want to go, our DS’ were very little at the time and were looking forward to it, but in fact it really helped to get away from home & the routines surrounding care of the dog etc. it’s very raw at the moment, eventually those images will fade and happy times spent with your dog will be in the forefront of your minds. Wishing you all the best going forward Op Flowers

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