Hi,
Was wondering if any of you could offer an unbiased opinion on our situation? Our dog, who we've had several years started showing (what I took to be) signs of discomfort, that got slowly worse over a few months.
E.g refusing to walk on certain surfaces, changing sleeping position, licking paws, not jumping into car, being grumpy etc. I monitored her once I noticed, got her an online behaviour referral (she is nervous of people and dogs) who suggested it might be pain related and suggested supplements and to see the vet. She improved on supplements - who's stress at vets stopped me going immediately - but then the improvements stopped. We took her to a vet who gave her antiinflammatories which did nothing. Took her back 2 weeks later (dog hating every minute) and vet offered another 3 week of the same drug or x-ray to check for arthritis and fractures. We opted for the x-ray, despite the cost and being worried about how she would take it - for me I wanted to know if there was anything causing it that we could help. Anyway, experience at the vet was traumatic, a week later and our dog is still coughing from the tubes. They didn't find anything. In between both vet appointments, I changed her walking routine (little and regular), sleeping places and tried to make the house more older dog friendly. This seemed to have worked to help her. But my partner is now blaming me for putting her through the whole vet experience, almost as if I have made the problem up. Despite 2 professionals agreeing that she was showing signs of stiffness. He has never had a dog before and refuses to find out more about them. As I write this, I feel that I did the right thing - or at least for the right reason - to stop her suffering, but as we are no further forward ( - yet, going back to the old vets miles away where she is more comfortable after a month with a new antiinflammatory), his answer is, it did a lot more harm than good. I can see his point and agree, but in my experience, animals aren't straight forward and nothing is guaranteed, so you have to try what you can to help. Not be willfully ignorant. Is this a case of him having his head in the sand or me being too quick to find something wrong? I would normally put it down to differing opinions, but our dog is relying on us to look after her!