DH was out with 4yo DS and ddog this afternoon. Ddog is 9 and has epilepsy. I NEVER leave them together or allow them to play together but DH refuses to accept ddog could pose a risk. Today, DS fell over ddog and ddog turned round and bit him on the temple. I wasn’t there but DS was very upset and said it hurt, although thank goodness no blood. If it was just a one-off I would of course say it was DS’s fault for startling him but ddog has always been a growly/territorial JRT and has got worse the more fits he has. He has snapped at both DH and me in our pre-parenting past for accidentally standing on him and made contact with DH’s ankle quite firmly. He snaps at other dogs on walks and has always growled if asked to move from where he’s sitting (he’s not allowed on furniture for this reason). I would have rehomed as soon as DS arrived but DH wouldn’t countenance it. We now have DS2 who is 5mo and frankly, I can’t face the risk. The hard thing is that because of age, medical and growling/snapping history it would have to be pts rather than rehoming. Ddog’s fits usually develop into status epilepticus for up to 25 minutes at a time but the vet won’t medicate as they only happen once every six months or so and there’s a chance the medication could cause aggression. I’m not here for easy answers. Tell me what I already know.