I was wondering whether anyone has had a similar experience & could offer any advice.
We've been actively looking for a golden retriever puppy since January this year, with no success yet 
I've been checking the Kennel Club website & Champdogs, I've written to our local golden retriever club - nothing. It's absolutely disheartening
All the litters I've seen are either reserved or there are some issues with the health checks/breeder. I've been in touch with some breeders but either they haven't responded, or we haven't been happy with them.
One breeder asked me to pick out a puppy from the litter when it was days old! When I questioned her, she became very defensive and I decided to steer clear of her. It's very important to me that the breeder genuinely cares about her dogs, the puppies' future homes & does everything 'right' (health checks, raising puppies, allocating them to the right homes).
I do understand that I need to be patient, but it's really hard. I'm almost tempted to go for a labrador instead (there seem to be a lot more labrador litters from good breeders) but I really do prefer goldens.
Apologies for the really long post. Would welcome any advice, I'm beginning to think we'll never find a puppy from a breeder that fits our expectations