Hi - just looking for some advice from anyone who has been here before. We have just found out our cocker spaniel has renal failure. He's only 10 and while I know that's oldish, we thought we had a good few years yet, but vet has said that with a changed diet some dogs live for up to another year from diagnosis... which is just heartbreaking as we are clearly talking months at best.
I'm totally devastated, not least for my eldest DC8 who sees the dog as a big brother, and don't know what to say to him about it as need to prepare him and I know he will be in bits...
thing is how do we know just how close the end is?
He's clearly unwell, he's been in the vet overnight on a drip as we think he ate something that's upset his stomach yesterday and he was sick, off his food (v unusual, eats everything) and shaking, with bloodshot eyes. Vet initially gave him an anti nausea injection and sent him home, but then he was just standing in our house not moving, not lying down, swaying and looking like he was going to collapse, and then he did fall over (it looked like he was literally falling asleep on his feet) which was awful to see - so we took him back in and that's when he got the drip and the blood test and we found out from the blood test that his kidneys are failing.
He ate this morning at the vet, but when he got home he immediately had diarrhoea on the floor 🙈 and has been sleeping ever since.
I'm scared that we are assuming he's eaten something he shouldn't and that's why he's so bad, but what if it's the kidneys and he's actually further on in the disease than we think and we haven't even got months? How do we know? Also, when will we know he's near the end? I'm so so sad for him, he's a lovely dog and usually so full of beans. I just can't believe it tbh, but feel I really need to get my head around it and prepare myself so I can be there for DC when we tell him.
Any advice? Thank you