I have a 4 year old springer bitch (neutered) and a 2 year cocker bitch (not done).
Around Christmas the cocker was due in to season and the springer was being a tit and wanted to play with her and the cocker went for her. The fight was broken up but the cocker managed to get on top. The springer was not happy and was eyeing her all day and they had to be supervised closely. They have settled down and now the cockers season has been and passed. Obviously she is still hormonal and will be being neutered in April.
Within all of this my partner and I broke up. The cocker is his and the springer is mine.
Then yesterday the two pups we also have were playing and the springer again was being a tit and wanted to play too. The cocker had come and to sit by my leg and the springer got to close and she dived for her. I only had to raise my voice and say stop and they both stop. The cocker took herself to her crate and the springer debated following. So I crated the pair of them for an hour to cool down and then they came out and they were fine.
I am fully aware that the cocker was guarding me at this point and she is fully aware she is not allowed to. They are both fully trained gundogs and both work. So they do have a job and are walked regularly and get the training and stimulation they require.
My concerns is that with my partner having left, they are all now trying to gain my attention. I'm hoping he will find a house with a garden and he can potentially take the cocker with him, as I do not want this to escalate. The house is currently separated by a stair gate, due to all his shooting bits being in the hall. I am hoping to open up the house and give the dogs the ability to take themselves upstairs and sit with the kids, so they are not so reliant on me. I'm hoping this will help because at the moment they are all trying to get to me for attention.
Is it worth getting one of the kids to bond with the cocker and take over with her and see if that helps? To be fair she spends most of the time in my sons room who is 13 and she just curls up on his bed with him.
Both dogs sleep on my bed with me and the pups downstairs in crates. Is it worth putting her into my boys room over night and seeing if she is reliant on someone else that it might ease the strain with the springer?
The springer had 8.5k worth of surgery last year due to having fissures and is now fully back to herself. However she is the beta and sits under me in pack order.
I do not want this escalating to the point of re-homing.
Any suggestions? I would like to nip it in the bud now before one gets hurt
The pups and 1 (cocker boy) and 9.5month (lab). No issues with them