have name changed, only because dp's sister is on here!
dp moved in with me last year mainly because of his job. He has a cocker spaniel who I absolutely adore. He originally came from the countryside but moved in with me (in a big city) due to a job change. We live in a house, nice garden for the dog etc.
big problem is off lead walks. He is fine on the lead on the pavement but the minute we get to a park or open space, he expects to be off lead and starts that high pitch whimpering to get off. Once he is off, he runs too fast and with the type of parks here that are surrounded by roads, lots of people and not fenced in, I cannot trust him not to cross a road. His recall is excellent, it's just the speed in which he goes away, I can't always be sure I would catch him in time and if he's gone too far and say saw a squirrel across the road, I am sure he would go. He goes and comes back regularly so it's not as though he doesn't come back.
so I have tried to keep him on a long line but it's so stressful. He doesn't like it and runs to the end of it so you can't leave it on the ground and stamp on it because he runs so fast, that even if you do stamp, it often slides out from under your foot!
so I am at a loss now as to what to do. He does gun dog training every week still back in the countryside and is brilliant and he is being put up a class and has passed his first scentwork training level. He's a really clever dog.
I have told dp that I think we need to get a 1 to 1 trainer here. It's clear this dog behaves well in the countryside where he has a lot of open space and this type of environment is just different to him. I would like someone to come on a walk with us and just give us some tips as to how we could do this better. I really love this dog, despite it not being mine, and I want him to have his best life and I just feel he isn't at the moment and it's stressful for both him and me! Dp is not convinced this is the right solution. With his gun dog trainer, the dog will walk with us, even where there are loads of distractions around, off lead and to heel. But here, in the city, he just will not do it, no matter what we do so we are obviously missing a trick!
would appreciate any advice as i would really like to crack it - I'm loving having a dog but would be even happier if I could start to enjoy walking him!