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Dogs for beginners

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Frazzled2207 · 07/01/2022 22:09

DH and I are both 'dog people' but he's never had one and I had them growing up so not completely clueless but that was a long time ago.

Now in our early 40s with two children (8 and 6)with a bigger house, working mostly from home (likely permanently) with a dog proof (fenced in) garden we are finally having the Serious Dog Conversation. We're not in a rush and may well not be ready for a year or two, understand that waiting lists are sometimes long anyway! So just at the very beginning of thinking really and would like some pointers on which breeds we should be considering and investigating.

We are not dead set on a puppy and not that bothered about 'pedigree' but I know rescues are unlikely to rehome a rescue where there are children; also I would be slightly wary of any adult dog where I didn't know the background.

General dog considerations
-we're prepared to walk a dog for a minimum of an hour a day, probably more at weekends
-we both wfh most of the time but assuming the dog is generally well exercised it would be great if he/she could be relatively chilled for most of the working day at least and not need constant attention
-ideally would be happy to run with me on a lead (not very fast)
-medium to large breed, not a small yappy terrier. Definitely not very large dogs though like great danes.
-not a dog that needs serious grooming and/or sheds a lot
-obviously needs to be good with kids albeit not particularly small any more.

Any ideas of breeds to start researching would be great.

Also a possibly stupid question. I get the impression that these days it's basically pay 000s (and wait months) for a 'breed', either from a reputable breeder or puppy farm (obviously won't go near the latter), or hopefully get lucky at a rescue. I wouldn't mind a mongrel as long as I knew about the parentage, is there a way to get a 'legit' mongrel puppy, from a family rather than a rescue? That's where our family dogs came from!

Thanks all

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Hedgesgalore · 11/01/2022 20:54

@wetotter

People with terriers know they don't have to be yappy.

Just like people with high-energy spaniels know they dont have to be nuts

But if OP doesn't want a terrier, and as there are so many other breeds and types to consider, why try change her mind?

Didn't attempt to change OPs mind.
Where did I suggest terrier breeds?

Wanted to point out that not all terriers are yappy, which was the glaring generalisation made by the OP.

GeorgiaPass · 12/01/2022 15:50

@whyyy321

We have a bedlington/whippet cross (so a lurcher I guess) and he's a wonder so far! Not too big for my little car, VERY chill in the house provided he gets suitable exercise (usually a longish walk in the morning off lead, a few sprints in the afternoon and sometimes a sniffy evening walk on lead). Can do longer walks when needed but also ok with short sprints. He's not a barker really, is quick to learn and is (too?) friendly with people. Copes well with long car journeys and is pretty adaptable.

He's got wirey fur rather than the longer fluffier fur some crosses like him have, which makes him easy in terms of grooming etc (bit of a beard trim and can usually just wipe mud off, doesn't need brushing really). I guess you couldn't select for this if getting a puppy though as his fur type didn't show until after we got him.

He is bouncy though- we don't have kids yet, but he'd be able to knock over a small child (accidentally!) easily. His bouncy moments only really last 5 minutes when he first meets someone though, and tbf he doesn't meet many kids so it could be a lack of experience.

I really want a beddy whippet he sounds amazing 🤩
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