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Golden retriever male barking mad . Literally

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megan1922 · 23/11/2021 06:30

Hi I'm just wondering if anyone has a golden on here who's awfully dramatic and a barker . I have read loads about the breed and apparently they don't really bark a lot but my dog does ! He always throws tantrums if he doesn't get his own way .

Example ... he will start throwing his head side to side and making a moaning noise . He then constantly barks when I'm in the shower . He lays and looks under the sofa and barks his head off constantly until I get up to look under there with him , if he can't reach something he barks

I know he's a dog and that's what they do but honest to god he's driving us all nuts 😂 . He's 8 months so hopefully this is just an annoying stage he's going through . Any suggestions or words of wisdom please

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MuthaFunka61 · 23/11/2021 06:46

Hi, it doesn't sound like the barking is excessive for a pup and training will help. Try playing peekaboo and start slowly leaving him ( out for 30 secs and lots of praise when you return), and build up slowly to help him understand that you've not abandoned him. If he becomes upset then go back a step and build his resiliance back up. As you're doing this start giving him commands - I use "stay 2 minutes" and hold two fingers up,peace style,(not FU style!). Mostly have fun with training games and find a good positive reinforcement trainer to guide you.

The thing you've mentioned which is most concerning is shaking his head and moaning, I think this requires a vet check.

Otherwise enjoy your lovely pup.

PS. You do know photos are obligatory?

mayblossominapril · 23/11/2021 06:46

I think he will probably grow out of it especially if you are firm and don’t give in to him. He’s feeling confident and testing the boundaries. 6-18 months is a tough age with puppies.

icedcoffees · 23/11/2021 07:06

That all sounds fairly normal to me.

The moaning sounds like whining to me - mine does it for attention 😬 you just have to ignore it, as painful as it is to listen to!

The barking when you're in the shower sounds like he doesn't like being left alone - do you give him anything as a distraction while you shower? A stuffed kong or a chew maybe?

The sofa thing - mine does it to tell me there's an absolutely tiny crumb or a toy of his under there 🤣 yes, annoying but it's his way of communicating.

Wagsandclaws · 23/11/2021 07:18

Mines a barker, specifically 5.30 to 6 am when it's wake up time. She sleeps in the kitchen with my other two labradors ( get a golden the said it'll be fun they said 🙄🤣) .

She doesn't like being left on her own and barks if we have to go out ( even though she's for the other dogs for company ) .

She's 16 months now and yeah she's a bit of a barker, like people I just think some
Dogs are.

nimbuscloud · 23/11/2021 07:22

Do you have neighbours????

ChardonnaysPetDragon · 23/11/2021 07:52

He might be scared of the shower. The sound of the water in the cubicle might make him scared.

Hoppinggreen · 23/11/2021 17:26

I’m on my 4th Goldie and none of them have been very hardy
Hopefully yours will grow out of it

Fredstheteds · 23/11/2021 17:29

Goldies are big personalities and needy. You need to train quiet, my colleague had one and he was a real barker for attention- he was in fact their child. Ours was a rescue she was lovely but strong willed. Really miss her. Find a good trainer to help

dustofneptune · 24/11/2021 17:52

I don't have a Golden, but do have a Cocker, and he was HORRIBLE for barking at 8 months old. God damn, I used to have splitting headaches all day long from it.

Basically - if barking works (or they think it works), they will keep doing it.

Your dog barks for you to look under the sofa. So you eventually give in and look under the sofa. So he thinks "Ok, when I need help under the sofa, barking is the way to communicate it". Haha.

There are a few things you can do to fix it. Different things work for different dogs.

One way is to ignore it completely. No eye contact, no talking, just completely ignore. Some dogs learn that barking isn't effective, so they stop.

Another way is to teach the "quiet" command. There are loads of resources online about how to do this. Basically, you just wait for a split second of quiet, then say "Good, quiet" and reward. You can then start saying "quiet" when your dog barks, and reward when he stops for a split second. Repeat this daily and doggo should understand what "quiet" means.

The other way is to teach "settle". This is what worked for my dog. Ignoring didn't work - he just loves the sound of his own voice. Look up "relaxation protocol" and follow the steps. Once your dog knows what "settle" means, you can start to use it when he's barking. It basically goes one step further than just "quiet", because you're asking him to shift his whole mental/physical state to a more relaxed one (lying down, being quiet, etc.).

The worst thing you can do is to basically talk back at your dog. This was what caused our problem in the first place. Our dog would bark constantly when in his pen, or when we were out of the room, and one of us would be like, "shhhh we'll be there in a minute" "be quiet" "stop barking" "silly dog" "ruff" or whatever. We were giving him attention by doing this, and not actually training him to stop.

I hope that makes sense!

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